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Anonymous

I am a mistress and I feel bad about this.I dont like this but the problem is that I am in a foreign country,without family and trying to work hard but the money that I make are not enough to have a decent living,so I need some support.I met that rich man and he is giving me money in exchange for intimacy.The problem here is that I dont like to sleep with him and I do this only because of my situation .I feel ashamed because I know I am not a bad person and if I wasnt in such a situation I would never do that ,and I am not trying to break him and his wife(actually I feel sorry for her) and I would never want such a man for me as a husband.Does the fact that I sleep with him because I need money and my money are not enough makes me a bad person?is this shameful?

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Anonymous

ma’am , whenever u will get chance to get out from this , just leave that profession , u can live with little money , but that trauma may be haunt u for long time . I will pray for u that u will get what u want to live a good life . Take care of yourself .

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Anonymous

You did something in an hour of need and now you have realised it was wrong
So you can correct it by stopping it right now

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screamferocious... @happyme16

This doesn’t make you a bad person. Your situation has forced you to do this.
But, this is not the only option. There are a lot of other ways to earn money. And you say that you don’t like sleeping with him and that you do it just for money. Why are you doing something you don’t like? Instead of that why don’t you work harder, get another job or something. If you don’t get a job then try harder and harder. Being a mistress is not the solution. What if someday that rich guy does not want to sleep with you anymore? What will you do then?
You don’t have to be dependent on anyone to give you money. I know it’s very hard to make your place in a foreign country, but that struggle and pain you go through makes you into a strong person.
And now it may seem easy but someday sleeping with this rich guy can turn into a huge problem. You could get into a huge problem someday because of this. I would really suggest you stop it now with that rich guy. Before it’s too late.
I am sure things will get better with you. Work hard and you will succeed. I hope this helps you. If you have any other queries, I’ll be happy to help you.

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Anonymous

I see
The problem is that he promised me to help me with my papers here ,cause there is no other way for me to fix this ,as he has a big company that maybe can help with that…but I hate sleeping with him for this but at the same I need his help….I feel so ,so bad about my whole life….cant describe how bad I feel…

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screamferocious... @happyme16

I am really sorry that I can’t really do anything to help you. But, I am going to try my best.
Tell me, what is that rich man like? His character? How does he treat you? Is he trustworthy?

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