I am a mess I really don't know what to do my relationship has issues we lack understanding and he's very upset with me idk how to make it up i can't really understand what interests me and what should I do in my career ahead it's just a bag full of issues at one time I love him I wanna keep him he loves me too but even he's having issues with me he's having issues at home his house is at stake and i am of no help i just don't understand how to go about...

Huh I'll say talk about it everything what you think and listen everything what he think 
I think in relationship there are always bad times but that make your bond even more better than before 😉 
And yes if you r wrong then accept it and if he is wrong make him correct


Stress

I am very upset & crying & missing someone very badly. We started talking just 7 days back. In the second day itself he told me that he is very much committed to his girlfriend. I had a recent breakup n later patch so I was already feeling down.  we visited each others apartments as friends as we live alone n it's hard to live alone during this pandemic times. Yesterday early in the morning he got panic attacks n so came to my apartment to sleep calmly. We ended up kissing. We decided not to ever communicate with each other in future in order to not ruin our relationships further. So we deleted each others contact number n unfollowed each others social media accounts. 
I was unable to move on so I called him in the Yesterday afternoon itself. But he refused to talk. N later went back home to his gf saying he is missing him too much n he wants to marry her. 
I don't know what r my feelings for him? Do I love him? Should I get involved any further if he calls again? M I missing him? I Really don't know anything.  But m crying since yesterday. 
He is a singer n in a good job. So I cant help n keep watching his videos in you tube. 
Is it love? How should I move on? He is clear that he loves his girlfriend. My astrologer says that I should not get involved with him. 
But I really liked him 😭 I may be wanted to marry him secretly.


Relationships

He texted, delivered 2 hours ago, seen 1 hr ago, no reply
He texted again
He started overthinking.
He asked why no reply
Still no reply

This was his daily routine, coz, he doesn't know how to change quickly.

When Anxiety hits peak, he doesn't have anyone to share, coz , his center of world was she. He thought he was incomplete without her.

What do you call him? A fool?
Ha ha. Thats me.

Comment down fool fool, I need to hear that 😊


3am Thoughts

Hey 
I am a 26 years old guy 
But i have a frnd who is my everything
Like he is just my life yaar
I like him so much 
He   is with me from my childhood
We went through so much together like assualt from families, coming out of the house and living our own life, studying with great hard work, sharing everything.
He is my side when i lost my sister because of my parents, he is my side when i was unconcious, he is my side when i was low after many things happened.
And from his side i am his side when he lost his twin, we are together when he was used by his parents and manymore. 
We just can't be seperated 
Just wanna be together always till the end. 
I saw him suffering and at his lowest times, he too saw me when i am the lowest. 
He is the best in this world
We have been great friends all these years 
But in recent days we are feeling something unusual
Like we are attracted to each other 
I know that i love him so much than anyone in this world 
He loves me like hell
But like what? 
Which relationship? 
I can tell that we are not friends anymore because we kissed, hugged each other
But we can't clarify our relation.
Whenever we talk about it forget about finding answer, we end up conversation as friends. 
We are very comfortable with each other but this thing we can't tell
We saw each other getting harrassed, assualted and molested by our parents but we still can talk about it freely. 
If we are close frnds why did we kiss Or hug? 
If we are more than frnds why can't we open up? 
I can't find answer and we are both boys
Even writing this i showed it to him, he is okay with what i am posting. 
We are too close.. What might have been the answer

Confusion

Okkay so long story short . He was working hard for a job so he could marry me. We both loved each other a lot. But my feelings changed and he didnt give commitment saying his parents are little conservative and wanted  sometime when i needed it . 
He was hurt when i dumped him 
But he is now at a good post job and made fun of me saying “u didnt trust me and supported me in my struggle ,good luck with ur new guy,have fun earning 10k a month .. and this ego is not ego i have earned this by my hard work.. not by jumping from guy to another like you did..BPO really suits you u will get a lot of call from males talk to them just like you love doing.. and dont do B.ed cos all you can teach is how to cheat on your partner”

Breakup

Good night all,

I am almost in anxiety, I am going in to a deep situation and I cannot stop thinking about it.. 

I am in love and in a relationship with a boy, we both love each other, and we are ready to get married and start a life from 0 together, without anything...


The issue is that the boy is not from my country... He's from the country I am living in.. But both have the same religion and both are like soulmates... The only thing is the language and the country.. Other culture... 

I am afraid now from telling my parents they are strict parents,they reject to get married to someone they Dont know the family and stuffs like those and I don't know how they will take this when I will tell them... Am afraid if they reject, and the worst take from me all my things car, phone, pc, tablet, everything...

What should I do? How I should tell them without a instantly rejection? Did someone happened this with them before?

Please help... 

Feeling confused nd need suggestion I love my best friend and got into relationship with him for like 2 weeks but then due to family issues we separated . I don't know whether he loves or loved me or not . It was 2 years back . Now recently I have him a call nd we are back to normal but it doesn't look like he's interested in talking to me. I don't know what I should do . 

Long Distance Relationship

The never initiated conversation... 
So it goes like...  We've been in the same school, same class and never talked.. So 13 years in the school... Just being aware of the fact that he exists.. Also we shared birthdays... Might have wished e/o at times.. Nothing more than that... I had never felt anything like that for any guy... 2 years ago we made a mere eye contact... And damn it I haven't ever been able to forget that... Idk it felt like something so unusual... He literally made every other guy unattractive... Since 2 years I haven't been able to get over him... He's on insta though... But what's the point of following when it will again get paused as a mere acquaintance... Idk what it was but i feel some connection with him... Like I ain't able to make decisions... Keep thinking him... Mind you I was a bright student and so is he... But i haven't been able to focus on anything lately... I genuinely want him to do well in whatever he wants..  I wish the best for him... He's in my prayers... Idk what is this... As soon as I try to distract my mind from him it just intensifies... In between I heard about him getting into a relationship... I felt bad... But why so?... I must focus on my studies.. Also I m trying so hard... But every other day that thought pops out..  I m preparing for an exam so no way of social interaction... Stay in a room and just doing nothing... I feel lifeless... My career would end if I do not study... But no f*in thing is getting to my nerves... I should be studying like anything rn but here I am doing something completely non relevant... But i need to do something about this... Please give honest suggestions keeping your self in my place... I don't want to hear 'go and study' 'forget it ' and all... Coz I ain't able to that's why I am writing it here... 

Career

He's not picking up my call and being distant since we started dating and it's fresh, it's just been a week, i asked him today does he have someone in his mind or is something bothering him and he said he'll explain later (texted today evening) i called him at 10pm, he cuts the call puts up a msg I'll call you right back, called him at 1am no response, y don't he tell off which is running in his mind, this is really bothering me nd making me more anxious, i don't want to feel this way, in what other way can i reach him, don't advice me to wait for his call after reading this.

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