I am a mess I really don't know what to do my relationship has issues we lack understanding and he's very upset with me idk how to make it up i can't really understand what interests me and what should I do in my career ahead it's just a bag full of issues at one time I love him I wanna keep him he loves me too but even he's having issues with me he's having issues at home his house is at stake and i am of no help i just don't understand how to go about...

Huh I'll say talk about it everything what you think and listen everything what he think 
I think in relationship there are always bad times but that make your bond even more better than before 😉 
And yes if you r wrong then accept it and if he is wrong make him correct


Stress

**what he thinks about me**
There is guy, who never msg me first and when one day he talks to me alot another day he doesn't even reply my message where he is free whole day. I used to msg him daily faced these things.I said him that i like u.He replied that ok. So before 2 days i decided to not msg him first. In past 2 days neither he messaged me nor i msged him. Yesterday he liked my last msg on instagram. Means how rude he is, he did not msg me just liked my 2 days old msg that was "okk ji bye". Then i also becoming he like him liked his last msg "bye". After that also neither he msged nor me. Now how i came to knw that what he is thinking abt me. And what should i do. Bcoz when i msg him he ignore me. 

Relationships

I'm bored... I have been budgeting but inflation is bad
A guy told me he was going to take me out to eat but I was working the whole time. Next we go out to eat. Is he genuine


3am Thoughts

Feeling very helpless & 💔😭. After being dumped & cheated twice, I finally found my true love who knew all my insecurities & trauma. I came into relationship with him only because he assured me we would get married but after dating 8 months he's saying he can't commit to marriage because of his mom's mental health issues which she's suffering from past 2 months.
He has given me a rough idea that if his mother gets back to normal then only he will talk to his parents for our marriage but has told me not to keep any hopes regarding marriage...although he is ready to continue the relationship or breakup only with the condition that I'll not cry alone but I'm dying here , crying my eyes & heart out with the pain of him giving up so easily. 😭😭
He still loves me & keeps a check on me cares for me but I'm completely devastated & shattered knowing the fact that we won't end up together. 

I used to fight a lot with him & I'm not sure if he's just making an excuse to get rid of me or my toxicity has ruined the love he had for me. 

Kindly suggest me what should I do?

1. End the relationship & just stay in touch as friends because it would be really hard to let him go all of a sudden

2. Or shall I just go with the flow & try to win him back with my efforts to correct all wrong I did to him

I'm feeling very suicidal only with the thought of him being a complete stranger to me😭😭😭please help me with your kind words & suggestions🙏🏻

Suicidal Ideation

Hey everyone..
I am in a sad mood lately. Already I am having issues in my relation because I overthink and everything. I also have issues with my parents. I am scared to talk with my parents for a longer time because I think again I’ll fight with them unnecessarily. 
Me and my boyfriend are over possessive about each other. I am perfectly chill about it because I love him being over possessive but when he talks that he will be caring less about everything and be more open about relations and all. That hurts me. Now a days we are having many fights. I have hurt my self physically because of that. Recently, since few days my relation was going smooth but again we are having issues. My close friend, who is like a brother had come home because my mom invited and I had to meet him and other friends today. My boyfriend called me up and told that next time I’ll also go and act like this so u won’t say anything remember that. I am hurt a lot!
Sometimes I think it’s always me who cares, who thinks, who over loves.
I don’t deny that he doesn’t love, he loves and cares a lot but sometimes it’s just me who is keeping the relationship alive. He always tells me what to you want? Should I do this that this that! I just expect time and cute stuff from him but he’s not able to do anything. I love him so much but now I am losing myself. 
Suggest me something please!

I don't know how to define this feeling. I met a guy 4 months ago, soon we came close to each other. Despite of being just friends we share equation like couples. That kind of talk, we use nickname for each other and all. Suddenly one day he stopped doing those things, he start treating me like his other female friends or i can started giving me less importance then them. I tried to talk to him about this, he clearly told things can't be same all time. Now i don't know what to do, i mean he is right, i have no right to questioning him, neither he owe any explanation to me.. still.. i don't what's bothering me. Is it love? Or habit? Or a change which i'm not able to accept. It's killing me inside.. i don't know what to do.. should i stop talking to him?

Conflict

I(female) need an advice...so basically I dont have alot of friends and I do have habit of talking to my only bffs since childhood...i need to give dem every detail...but mt bestie moved to diff colg(2016) and i had no1 so i started talkimg to strangers..which only lasted short term..I have a bf(4 years strong) and our relation had some ups and downs...i got back to texting/chatting my cousin/friend(male) which my bf didnt liked..considering his feelings i reduced the amount of talking wid my cousin and cleared the boundaries and let him know i have a bf...also last year i found dis app which i used to get advice from people and this year when i installed it for the same. Reason i connected with a few ppl and made friends with one guy..we talked 10 days or so. He was a nice person so the convo lasted but eventually i uninstalled the app...when i came back he told me he is uninstalling the app and i was fine by it...told my bf abut this frnd and he is upset dat i keep talking to strangers(guys) and  letting dem know about personal life. What shud i do to fix thiss?

Hey Now&Me community.
I've been friends with this guy since August 2017 and we've just been the best of friends ever since. We've been so close and just gotten so comfortable around each other to the extent that we could literally cuddle and nothing would ever happen. People have thought we were dating before but that has never been true. We never dated. When asked, he would tell people he doesn't like me, I'm not his type or just that we would never date because we wouldn't go together well. Problem now came in about 2 weeks ago. He came onto me, we made out. I felt like a piece of trash after that encounter. I couldn't bring myself to even look at him 2 days after that then he came to talk to me and we both agreed that it was a bad idea and never going to happen again. You guessed it. It happened again. This time I expressed that it was going to destroy me and he agreed and said it would destroy him too. Fast forward to like 2 days ago. We made out again and I feel like talking about it with him is just a waste of time now. I feel like a complete wreck. Like why can't I just stop it when it starts. I feel so dirty and disgusting. I feel like he looks at me like I'm cheap now or something. I feel like crying about it but I can't exactly talk to anyone else but him about it. I feel like another notch on his belt. I have tried to live my life free of all these sexual things and just when school is about to end, this happens. I have no idea  how I'm going to come back from this. I feel like he's just using me to get rid of his sexual frustrations. 

College

He talks to his ex everyday and she still tells himenshe loves him. He gives more of his attention to her than me. But he says she's just a friend and he loves me. I don't know what to do

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