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Anonymous

I am a female turning 31 this year . I had no idea what to expect from my 20s. I hadn’t had much friends. I was just cooped up in my room wherever I was. I tried to go out but because of limited companion and finance I wasn’t able to explore much. Now I am in my 30s still jobless and not married. Can someone tell me what to expect from my 30s. How can I improve it. What are the things I should keep in my mind?

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Anonymous

have you tried applying for some jobs? It can be tiring at the beginning to find one, but it will atleast give you financial aid yo start off. And then maybe look for better opportunities as u go ahead. Bcz if you’re not having a financial support behind you, you need to get that before anything else

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Anonymous

Skill up yourself if you have time, and develop interest in learning new skills and tech that could help you land up a job for your upcoming future so that you can become financially stable at some point. And then plan about your future and all

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What skill? And from where? I am totally unaware.

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Skills related to tech field.

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Gautam @lovely_boy2

You must go for solo trips or trips with a companion. You should fly like a free bird. Job and friends are temporary, your happiness is forever. You deserve to be happy 😊

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anuj @anujvohra

Yes. Try to financially independent. Work on ur finances, get a job or set up ur own if feasible financially. Do hold on to your friends who are genuine friends. generally it goes on single digits and pursue a hobby.

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Anonymous

But being a female. Even if I get a job after two or three years I have to leave it because of managing my kids.

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anuj @anujvohra

After 2/3 years is a long time, nowdays females are working even after maternity. You can take a decision once u reach that stage in discussion with ur family. This suggestion is based on your current factor only.

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