i am a bisexual female. i am attracted to both males and females. theres a guy i like but hes my friend and he already has a gf. my gf and i have had an on and off relationship for the past couple months.
my friend comes to my place often and this one night he knocked at my door drunk to his shoes. he was giddy as hell and talking gibberish about his gf. seemed to me that they had a fight of some sort and he came to me for comfort instead of going home. i settled him down on my sofa and we had a heart to heart chat even though he was deadass drunk. a while into chatting and we shared a weak moment and kissed for a bit but he withdrew himself. we were pretty awkward after that until the next morning and he thought of breaking up with his gf because of me. i asked him not to make rash decisions although i kinda want to pursue this relationship.
itโs only been a few days and hes back to his routine and he lied to his girl. him and i have been chatting for a while now. should i tell him to break up with his girl or should i just avoid him cause we cant really get back to being normal friends after what happened.
What a generation.
Belonging to this generation doesnโt mean that you are fake and indulge in acts like they do.
being slow minded wonโt help you last long in this fast paced world. just because your parents and peers are ignorant/hateful towards queer people, doesnโt mean you have to be too.
Do you like him. If you are considering on the moment you shared then you may need to rethink
i have lukewarm feelings for him. i am not the kind of person who likes to date very seriously or put too much pressure on dates and holidays. i am chill with anything as long as my partner doesnโt annoy me. i believe that love is somewhere where youโre at peace. and he does give me peace. i am not deeply in love with him. i just love to be around me and he loves being around me as well.
the kiss was was just my weakest moment with him. i wish we could be together.
I donโt what this kind of connection or relationship is called but seems like itโs better you rethink and even ask him to rethink about it
i guess ill stop being friends with him. youโre right. he was intoxicated and we were not thinking rightfully at that moment. its a pretty one sided thing i have here. its better to let him go i guess.
Yeah that would be betterโฆ
he agrees too. wow this was really bittersweet.
our friendship has really officially ended.
Hope you are okay with this
i think Iโm ok. i was ready for this but Iโm still a lot teary right now. hahahaha.
Wanna talk ?
nah Iโm good. thatโs all guys. thanks for your support. i think i did the right thing. Iโll miss him but i hope Iโll see him in a better place at a better time, some other day when we are both sober. i really wanna make some strong decisions now. thanks a lot. love you.
You are in classical dilemma of damn you do and damn if you donโt. If you Iโll ask for breakup it look selfish
your english is super broken.
Oh really
i canโt understand what youโre saying.
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