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Anonymous

I am 33 years old. I haven’t done anything with my life. I am not good at anything absolutely no talent for anything. Never had a meaningful relationship with anyone don’t have friends. Hate myself . What if this is it. This is all my life is going to be. What if I don’t amount to anything just stay a big zero all my life. If so then whats the point of any of it. Just existing and finally dying a useless ,bitter old Lonley nobody.

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Anonymous

Hey how are you first I m 19 year old and I think same that I m back from all no frnds to tlk or what I m doing is hit people think I know everything but when it comes to result I m dumb I suck at maths and my maths tutor is like she don’t know anything I don’t give a fuck man I think I m doing great okay if this is not my time it’s okay nobody have long term happiness we have to creat that …just belive that we are here for some purpose and we have enough of thing …people don’t have .you know people with less knowledge than me are clearly professional exam nd I m sitting here and have anixety but after my result I made promises that I have to do what so ever takes me toward my sussces and my happiness so people don’t take any step and just try and set a goal … around you everybody loves you …❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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@oyechill

yaar 50s mei kehte to sense banta hai okay… you just 33 years old… JUST 33…

imma give you a dumb example but if you get the point then why not… have you ever baked a cake ? what do you do ? first assemble the ingredients , proportionate and then ? mix the batter and wait for it to bake, right ?
similarly, its upto us , bout what ingredients we take , red velvet cake and chocolate cake ke same hote hai ? nope . similarly , the ingredients of life , and the proportion to which we take it is important .

ab lets come to baking . you put the batter for baking yea ? … minimum it might take 20min right ? ab if you keep seeing the oven again and again , keep regretting , keep ranting , will it reduce the 20min ? nope right . there’s a set time for everything , all we can do is wait and pray . rest isnt in our hands , the allotted time will be taken no matter what :)

now if you remove the cake before 20min , what’s gonna happen? its gonna be undercooked and would be soggy . would you like this version of the cake, or the best one at the normal time taken? relate this same logic to yourself 💙

hope this gave you a better insight , if not, chalo koi nai…we are all here with you ,dont worry 💙

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Anonymous

I understand what you are trying to say here but life is not as straightforward as baking a cake. Also I am saying this at 33 because I don’t want to be in my 50s saying the same thing and regretting not saying anything at 33, but thanks for your reply, I really appreciate it.

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@oyechill

yea true that… at some point , we all tend to feel that way , i have as well ; sorry though . Is anything bothering you ? if any… try working it out… warna we all are there na… we can work things out fikar not …

if you’re free or something… we can actually talk bout this in details , and like see what to focus on and all that 💙 dont stress a lot , ho jaega dont worry 💙

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