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Anonymous

I am 30 year old female. I have been preparing for government Bank exams but didn’t get in. Partially it was my fault because I didn’t study. Partially it was people around me or my luck. In short I had faced a lot in my life and suffered a lot. But saying all of that, now I am attracted to a 20 year old guy and vice versa. He is studying medicine and studies more than 12 hrs a day. On the other hand I am someone who studies just for 4 hours maximum. I am so embarrassed. Should I stop talking to him? He won’t be interested in me anymore after knowing this fact.

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Anonymous

Hours of study doesn’t matter much. It’s how much you are able to understand. You can balance out the topic of studying more hrs with your guy. Good luck for your exams.

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Obviously it doesn’t matter and plus see if guy is mature then it don’t matter but as u said he is 20 year old i doubt about mature thing

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Anonymous

Tell me one thing, that in which way you are attracted towards that guy? What are you expecting from that guy

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Anonymous

He is passionate about his life. He is so sure of his goals and works hard to achieve it. He likes playing guitar and do his best in that too. On the other hand I am just a lazy bum. I get a lot inspired by him. He always understands and motivates me. I never get bored or run out of topics when talking to him. I am attracted to him since 3 years now and can’t get over him, though we used to not talk for six months or more.

nitin khalkho @toughguy

Glad to know that . I am the one who got selected as PO in bank of india in IBPS 23-24. And trust me when i say i also used to study hardly for 4-5 hours … so its not how long you study but what new things you learn when you sit down to study … and not just doing same arithmetic and puzzles… but making sure that you learn something new everyday its either through mock test or lectures.

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Anonymous

No I am thankful for the exam tip too. Anyways thankyou too for replying ☺️

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Anonymous

Thankyou for your advice ☺️

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Anonymous

Hey. I want to know about the work environment of urs. Is ur job stressful? I heard it from some people so just asking don’t get offended plz.

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Anonymous

Abhi joining nhi aayi hai … election ke baad june tk aayegi. . But it is stressful yeah … so is every job … but dont listen to those who tell to not join because its an excuse to not work hard …

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Anonymous

Alright. Thanks.🙂

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