I am 21, last year college student. I have no talents nothing. I don’t consider myself worth anything. I am right now totally frustrated with my life because i have no idea what to do. My parents think m good for nothing and that i can’t achieve anything, now somewhere even i think they are right. M good at nothing. I was thinking to do mba as i thought it will be a better option for me after my 4 years of bsc agriculture which was a total waste. I don’t even know why i thought that agriculture was a good option for me. But my parents are like u r not capable of cracking CAT exam so better write ielts and go abroad. I want to go for CAT but even i dont believe in myself now. I dont know how to express myself. Its not just about my career. Its like m never good enough for anything or anyone. I feel like a failure.
common feeling bro…you need to prove yourself by hardwork &dediction …you are capable just search for ur goal and stick to it
Goal he to nhi mil rha
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
Hmm… Maybe you are… Everyone are Failure in something at somepoint…
But feeling that you are not capable of something is wrong… I’m doing something that I’m not interested in, I’m doing it for my parents… I’ve a passion to follow and I try to manage both… Sit calm…straight… Just think what you’ve done, what you wanna do… Plan it go for it. Do not ruin this time while choosing A or B, just go for what you actually thought of.
~from another failure😉
Thats what the issue, i don’t even have any passion. I cant even think of a single thing m good at or on that matter even interested in. Atleast u got something to look forward to.
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
Bro?!
You boy or a girl… Sounds like a boy.
So, if you don’t have a passion that’s ok. Take some time, be peaceful, go to your parents and ask what to do and live in their dreams. It’s better to live in someone’s dreams rather than dying alone in your dreams and someone are your parents… You have to feel proud.
I dont want to live a life in which i wont be happy…i can agree to what they say and go abroad but maybe then i will always consider myself as a failure…because they think going abroad is the only option i can settle myself…and btw m a girl
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
Ok… What makes you happy?
I don’t know. But proving myself as a failure will for sure not make me happy.
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
Why do you want to prove anyway and for whom… If you wanna go for CAT go for it. And you are worth something… For now, you are worth talking to AdiTya😉
I wanna prove myself…but thats the thing …m myself scared…what if i actually fail and proove them right.
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
Ayyoo pichi pilla😄
What’s your name?
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
And you’re not gonna come out of your sad state ha?
I wish i could but i don’t think that wont happen soon
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
You know what?
1. you need sleep or
2. You need me for listening whatever you actually feel, wanna do, or just share random thoughts
Thankyou for showing concern yr…but i think it will be better if i deal with it alone but thankyou so much for trying to cheer me up
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
That’s the thing, that’s it…
Keep loving yourself and if you have more… Just share it with people like me…
Now go get some sleep🤗
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
Same here bro…
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
It’s ‘she’ actually…
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
And how can you both have the same problem… Siblings?
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
Oops…my bad!
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
Umm no but I got similar kinda problem…
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
🤔
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
R u thinking what the problem is?
Whats up with u?
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
Also waiting for you to say what it is and waiting for you to accept the request
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
Well that’s a huge story…in short, I’ve been self sabotaging myself, procrastinating, being lazy and JUST HATE MYSELF BEING LIKE THIS…don’t know how to change, what to do…and the worst part is I just feel really really worthless
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
I hope u can see the previous message…about the request- I’m new to this so kinda skeptical…
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
Really😕
How can one person feel all this at once
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
I am new too… This my my 2nd hour spending in this app and sharing all what I think and i got a friend named jency… You can trust me💯
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
Ikr…but that’s me😭…have u ever felt in that way? Or have you ever felt really low nd completely lost confidence?
Ahh i feel you…the worst part is hating all of that but still not able to do anything about it
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
K I’m trusting ya👍🏻
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
Well said…have u thought about it? Like how u r gonna come out of that cycle?
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
I’m feeling right now… But it stays clam inside. I have many reasons to be depressed but I don’t know the exact one…so, be cool And when you don’t know something… Let it be, just go with your flow… Or text me😉
If i knew what to do …i wouldn’t be here…m totally frustrated…i have no idea what to do…its all getting too much for me
Vaishnavi @vaishusamy
Hmm…don’t worry we’ll figure it put😊…peace✌
Hope so
AdiTya🎶 @iamaditya
Am I done something wrong?
