I am 21β¦I have dated 2 guys and both relationships endedβ¦the guys were nice but one thing led to another and my relationships just end. Why is it happening? I see my other friendsβ¦for them everything is favorable. Why not for me?
Yeah
Tell me why this is happening
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Hey itβs ohk, sometimes we just find the perfect one in first time and sometimes it takes timeβ¦donβt worry you will goona find the perfect one sooner with whom your vibes will goona matchβ¦
Till that Wish you all the happiness.
I am literally crying while typing rnβ¦I am going through a breakup and the guy was good.
Hey I am really sorry, if you think that guy is good please talk to him and clear your misunderstanding, sometimes itβs just misunderstanding which results into breakup so pls try your best to clear these misunderstanding. I hope you will try
Sisyphus @sisyphus
Relationships are not ment to last forever.
Marriage? I know divorce exists, but if that doesnβt last forever (ab use free,dowry free) no use of getting married.
Sisyphus @sisyphus
Marriage is a social construct created for the alliance between tribes. We are just following the social norm. Actually itβs an agreement.
As long as there is love and peace between two people they can live together doesnβt need to be marry. And it is not necessary to be forever.
Why?
Sisyphus @sisyphus
The βhappily ever afterβ thing is a myth. There is no such things. Some people live together for long some wonβt. Both are okey. The purpose of life is not getting married and settle. Maybe today one feel attract to another and maybe after few days or months or years itβs not necessary to feel the same as it feels at the beginning. You know people change our perspective change. So may be we canβt live with some after few years like we did today. Itβs all okey. Marriage/ having a partner is not a big deal.
Do you get the point? This is just my thoughts.
Ohhβ¦thanksβ¦I get it now
Sisyphus @sisyphus
And you are just 21, your perspective of life will change in coming years. You will grow. Donβt worry you got may time ahead. Keep Calm And Chill.
I hope change for good.
Sisyphus @sisyphus
I wish you that.