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I am 18 years old girl. I have 81 kg, and Iโ€™m 5,2. Most of the day, i have to go out with my 10 month old baby brother and 4 years old brother. Our grandmotherโ€™s house is pretty close, so we used to walk there. And today, my grandmas friend tells me that she thought i was their mother. I meant she thought my brothers were my kids. And they laughed about it for a few minutes. I know i am Fฤ€T and big. But still, it hurts me deeply. Whenever i show my mother a picture of a cute dress, she will say that it wonโ€™t suit me or i will be looking like a prรซgnant woman in that dress. my older brother also had never said any sweet thing to me. They only call me whenever they need something. have been trying to lose weight, but it has been so difficult. I know Iโ€™m not pretty like other girls, but i just want to hear at least one positive thing about myself. I am so sad right now ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜ฟ

Who ever has read this THANKYOU ๐Ÿ’—

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Kunwar Pratap @steady_mon...

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Iโ€™m really sad to hear this. Iโ€™m not giving you fake empathy but it hurts. It may make you face sleepless teary nights. Not sure but I have had days like that. Beauty and all is a thing but itโ€™s not more than love, especially of your family. When family members behave like this it does feel hurt. Iโ€™m really sorry about this, they could have supported you to lose weight. Please try to make them understand. And yes, you can always start gym. I know you are strong sending virtual hug ๐Ÿค—. I beleive you can do it. Start your journey by taking baby steps. Avoid sugar. Eat good protein. I too do gym. It helps my anxiety and keeps me healthy because I have to raise my children and support my wife, so health matters.

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Anonymous
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Thank you for saying this. I have been going to the gym, and yes, it helps little. I hope your life will get much and much better and wish u all the bessst ๐Ÿ’—

@meredith5_
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Hey, how are you. I am also a female. ๏ฟผ

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Anonymous
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Iโ€™m just living. Hope you are good

Karthik @great_whisper_2

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First of all u have to start loving urself โ€ฆ when u donโ€™t love urself how can u expect others to ? Stop being pessimistic and start to adore urself how u r โ€ฆ no one is perfect or good looking โ€ฆ it all depends on how the other person looks at u โ€ฆ u r great in ur own way โ€ฆ

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Anonymous
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Back then, when i looked at the mirror, i used to say โ€œaww how pretty you are.โ€ And after i get ready to go out, sometimes i asked my mom or my brothers do i look pretty? But i have never get any positive comments from them. And my dad always says, Arenโ€™t you gonna lose weight. Donโ€™t you see gurls at your age. Thatโ€™s y now i donโ€™t see myself pretty at all. Feels like Iโ€™m someone who has to work for them.

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Anonymous
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Itโ€™s good not to have any expectations from anyone including ur fmly bcos the more we expect the more we get dejected

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Anonymous
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But it wonโ€™t hurt them to say one thing, tho. But okayโ€ฆ Iโ€™m not gonna expect anything from them. So maybe i can stay little happy.

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Anonymous
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This is how u have to b โ€ฆ u enjoy what u do and keep loving urself always

Karthik @great_whisper_2

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In this current world every single person will say something or the other about others and they think as if they are themselves too good but no one is good and no one is perfectโ€ฆ everyone have their flaws โ€ฆ care a shit about what others think or say and u start to love urself for the way u r

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Anonymous
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I am trying. But just want to hear one positive thing from my mom ๐Ÿ˜”

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Anonymous
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Donโ€™t โ€ฆ no expectations from anyone is good in the long run

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Anonymous
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Okay ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿซ‚

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Anonymous
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Youโ€™re such a caring and responsible sister, which shows how kind-hearted and capable you are. Remember to be gentle with yourself; losing weight takes time and patience. Focus on small, sustainable changes like incorporating more fruits and vegetables into your diet and finding enjoyable ways to stay active. And always remember, your worth is not defined by your appearance. Youโ€™re unique and valuable just the way you are. Keep shining bright!

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Anonymous
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I know right. But my mom keeps making me sad. I tried to ignore her words, but it made me cry most of the time. But thank you! Will try my best to change those, though. Hope you will have to deal with only positive things in ur future. โ™ก

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Iโ€™m really sorry youโ€™re feeling this way. Itโ€™s incredibly tough when our loved ones unintentionally hurt us. Remember, your feelings are valid, and itโ€™s okay to seek support from others who can help you navigate this. Communication, setting boundaries, and self-care can be helpful in improving your situation. You deserve love and understanding. Hang in there, and take things one step at a time. Sending you warmth and strength during this challenging time. ๐Ÿ’•

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Anonymous
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Thankyou ๐Ÿ’˜

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Anonymous
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Who cares if youโ€™re fat? If youโ€™re 81kg ? Does that bother you? If yes, then work towards it and if it doesnโ€™t bother you, fuck what people say.

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Anonymous
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Thankyouu โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน

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