I am 18 years old girl. I have 81 kg, and I’m 5,2. Most of the day, i have to go out with my 10 month old baby brother and 4 years old brother. Our grandmother’s house is pretty close, so we used to walk there. And today, my grandmas friend tells me that she thought i was their mother. I meant she thought my brothers were my kids. And they laughed about it for a few minutes. I know i am FĀT and big. But still, it hurts me deeply. Whenever i show my mother a picture of a cute dress, she will say that it won’t suit me or i will be looking like a prëgnant woman in that dress. my older brother also had never said any sweet thing to me. They only call me whenever they need something. have been trying to lose weight, but it has been so difficult. I know I’m not pretty like other girls, but i just want to hear at least one positive thing about myself. I am so sad right now 😕😿
Who ever has read this THANKYOU 💗
Kunwar Pratap @steady_mon...
I’m really sad to hear this. I’m not giving you fake empathy but it hurts. It may make you face sleepless teary nights. Not sure but I have had days like that. Beauty and all is a thing but it’s not more than love, especially of your family. When family members behave like this it does feel hurt. I’m really sorry about this, they could have supported you to lose weight. Please try to make them understand. And yes, you can always start gym. I know you are strong sending virtual hug 🤗. I beleive you can do it. Start your journey by taking baby steps. Avoid sugar. Eat good protein. I too do gym. It helps my anxiety and keeps me healthy because I have to raise my children and support my wife, so health matters.
Thank you for saying this. I have been going to the gym, and yes, it helps little. I hope your life will get much and much better and wish u all the bessst 💗
Hey, how are you. I am also a female. 
I’m just living. Hope you are good
Karthik @great_whisper_2
First of all u have to start loving urself … when u don’t love urself how can u expect others to ? Stop being pessimistic and start to adore urself how u r … no one is perfect or good looking … it all depends on how the other person looks at u … u r great in ur own way …
Back then, when i looked at the mirror, i used to say “aww how pretty you are.” And after i get ready to go out, sometimes i asked my mom or my brothers do i look pretty? But i have never get any positive comments from them. And my dad always says, Aren’t you gonna lose weight. Don’t you see gurls at your age. That’s y now i don’t see myself pretty at all. Feels like I’m someone who has to work for them.
It’s good not to have any expectations from anyone including ur fmly bcos the more we expect the more we get dejected
But it won’t hurt them to say one thing, tho. But okay… I’m not gonna expect anything from them. So maybe i can stay little happy.
This is how u have to b … u enjoy what u do and keep loving urself always
Karthik @great_whisper_2
In this current world every single person will say something or the other about others and they think as if they are themselves too good but no one is good and no one is perfect… everyone have their flaws … care a shit about what others think or say and u start to love urself for the way u r
I am trying. But just want to hear one positive thing from my mom 😔
Don’t … no expectations from anyone is good in the long run
Okay 😕🫂
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I know right. But my mom keeps making me sad. I tried to ignore her words, but it made me cry most of the time. But thank you! Will try my best to change those, though. Hope you will have to deal with only positive things in ur future. ♡
Thankyou 💘
Who cares if you’re fat? If you’re 81kg ? Does that bother you? If yes, then work towards it and if it doesn’t bother you, fuck what people say.
Thankyouu ❤️🩹
