I am 14 year girl . I was always invisible in school. Noone likes to talk to me and if anyone talk to me people outcast them. Thatโs why noone wants to sit with me or eats with me. Coz i am ugly and i am not good in studiesโฆ People bully me and make fake rumors about me and my familyโฆ But finally my school is changed and i am very happy about that but my happiness not last long my some old classmate in same school of me and then they tell all about me how am i in old school that all people abondend me. And in first 2 school year i am reaaly depressed and even i locked me in my school bathroom. Bt after that a girl appeared in my life and she makes me use all my money on her. and then she tell me to flirt with random boys who comes to our zchool to meet their friendsโฆfirstly i like the attention they all give me bt they all see me on my Instagram account. I am always afraid that if they see me in real lifeโฆ They alll liked that bullies so i just flirt with them for some time then left them . I donโt want them to see my real face.so i am single bt my friend make fake rumors that i had dated do many times. So all of them likes to give me attention coz they thought i have poweful background bt it not last long bt then i go to tution and then i got so much attention i am cheerful bubbly girl for themโฆbt they also think i dated so many times. They all think that i date all guys for 2-3 days. I get attention bt nobody knows that i am agirl who never dated before. Those one year are best in my life bt then some more girls come to our tution all boys flirting with them i being a dude and help them to date bt when i think all in my tution is dating or dated befor bt i am the only one who they think just ss friend i cried bt i made it invisible and laugh a lot then there is lockdown and i cut all my relation with all my friends bt then tution reopen my mom forced me to join tution bt now i donโt want friends anymore and i just study and get out bt when i see my friends and other new students laugh and making secret s i got jealous and i want to make friends with then one more timeโฆbt i know now all boys hate me โฆ I kept in my mind and keep my mouth shut its not that i donโt try to along with them bt it makes me just uncomfortable abd awkward because they have some topics to talk about boys and sone other personal stuff โฆplz tell what i do to get with along them
Hello
I would like to tell you something " We are all beautiful in our own way" Someoneโs opinion will never determine your worth.
Be aware that bullying is wrong and punishable- bullying is not just verbal, it can be physical, mental , emotional , anything. If the kids are constantly spreading rumours about you and your family please tell an adult- your parents, a teacher any senior authority figure in school just bring to their notice how students are treating you.
Secondly, no one can and should make you do anything against your wishes. If you feel you have a hard time saying no to someone when they are asking you to do something unreasonable, just stand in front of a mirror at home and practice saying no with confidence.
If you feel that the bullying or environment at school is affecting you please seek a professionals help, you can go to the school counsellor or you can talk to your parents and seek help of a professional with a private practice
Hope this helps
Thanks for your helpโฆ I really appreciate itโฆ
