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screamferocious... @happyme16

I always say I love being single, but I kinda wish I had someone. Am I the only one who feels this way?

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Anonymous

I also think the same
But relationship comes with hella lot of responsibilities which I am not ready for so am like better be single without any tension ✌🏻

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screamferocious... @happyme16

Yeah. I think so too.

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screamferocious... @happyme16

You ever had any relationships?

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Anonymous

I did… lasted 3 years
Ended because it turned very very toxic
But now more than happy to be single

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screamferocious... @happyme16

Hmm. That’s good.

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Anonymous

Did you have any?

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Anonymous

Hmm I really want this too…but I have a really diff thinking on relationships and my views on this differs from people normally

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screamferocious... @happyme16

what are your views on relationships? I would love to hear it.

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Anonymous

Umm like I really had a very clear cut thinking
Ab jaise for example
I’ve seen people meet and then thode din saath me spend krte hai and then they are like chalo relationship me chalte hai…I mean you’ve Just met the person 2-3 months ago and you are ready to give a relationship tag to that… deliberately log tag laga dete hai relationship ka and then next day se “babu” , “shona” , “goodnight babe” , morning baby and they call it a relationship
This is shit…
Aaj tum kisi se freely baat nai krre aur next day se you are like the person means everything to me
Don’t you think this is so non sense type of thing…
And for me
Relationship is something like
You meet someone today and that person seems normal to you
And as time goes by you start talking and then you have a lil crush on them
Dheere dheere the crush you have grows and then that person is your friends and till the time you realise you’re in love it’s already 1-2 years of good friendship you’ve spent with them then you just struggle aur mehnat krke uss ladki ko patate hain hum tabbbhi just the bond strength becomes more strong and you guys are actually vibing toghether
So this Is what a ideal realtioinship Is for me
Not like aaj meet kri and then kal tag laga diya ki hum dono bf gf hain
Aaise logon ka breakup hi hota hai sooner or later
So yeah
Also love at first site is shit
There’s nothing called love at first sight
Aaj kal ke youth ne isko bas cool banne ke liye use krte hai you can’t love anyone by just seeing it
You tend to fall in love with their talks , accent , wwords they use , or just those small cute things which attracts you

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Anonymous

@happyme16
Reply toh padho mera 😭

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screamferocious... @happyme16

Yeah, you have a good point here…

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screamferocious... @happyme16

But you know sometimes, I just don’t even know if ‘love’ exists…
I honestly don’t believe in love because I haven’t really experienced it.
But I would really like to experience it I mean if it exists…

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Anonymous

I would like to say it does exists and it’s a really pure and beautiful thing to experience though
But aaj kal ke nibba nibbiyon ko kon Samjhaayega the real meaning of this thing

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Anonymous

Aiyya same… but I feel it’s better for me to stay single away from drama and at the end abba nahi manenge thing

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Anonymous

Hmm. Me too actually that “abba nahi manenge thing”

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Anonymous

I also wish but i don’t truly mean it cause guys are hell lot of work man

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