I actually needed help, I’m just a regular teenager who’s 16, I joined a new school in my 11th grade that’s a all boys school and all my new friends have girl- friends and they have made many friends (girls). And I just don’t know how to make them or talk to the girls like what do I do I just want to make some new friends if there’s anyone who could tell me what to do it would be great
Start with small.things…Like Hi do you have pen or can I borrow your notes fo one day…when you cross them try to say hey or hi…pass them little smile…but not too often…you don’t want to seem to be too desperate…meaning make contact with them but at the same tym give them their space…if they want to be friends with you then after certain approaches they will also try to start conversations…if not them they don’t want to be friends with you…then take a hint…and most impoartant respect their decision
And could you help me out if it’s online like through Instagram or something how do I do it ?
See dude…there is noo like formula…to impress girls…just be yourself…like you can start by simply saying hi or if you know the person then heyy…or you can like directly send a joke…all of these things can go wrong…but they can work tooo…buil the friendship slowly…identify the red flags…like if someone is always giving you replies after 10-12 hrs…biggest red flag…don’t engage…also if you are sending jokes…try not to send double meaning jokes first…feel the vibe…go with the flow…what I do…like suppose some friend texted mee and I am not able to understand what to reply to that…then say like I can’t think of something to reply to that(emoji according to your mood)…and I know its the age of being too much into girls…but don’t be too involved into them…make a balance between boys and girls…both type of friends are necessary…
Simran @st1199
Hello!
So, you want to make friends in general or female friends?
Female friends actually and through social media as schools and everything are closed rn
Simran @st1199
Why do you have the urge to make, because your other male friends have and you feel left out or inferior or in general it would be a good option to have some? 🙆
Just in general, not in any sort of bad way . Just generally want some female friends
Simran @st1199
Okay, so you want to know how to talk to them. You’re doing great as I am a female, haha.
Else, maybe try any dating app to see what it’s like to interact and have conversations.
Thank you but , you know I’ve followed people on Instagram who are from other schools . And like do I just directly message them saying a hey ? I feel I’ll be judged and they’ll just think I’m weird when my only intention is to make friends . Are you able to understand what I’m telling ?
I’m not too comfortable using any dating app cause I feel like what if I upload my details there and randomly any person whose mutual to my brother finds me there by mistake it’ll be a problem for me you know .
Simran @st1199
Unless they were your friend once or are an acquaintance, why would you randomly message a girl? Obviously, they’ll find you a creep.
If they were, just talk generally long time how’s everything and all. If you feel they aren’t interested cut the talk. 🌼
