how would y’all deal with a close friend who says hurtful insulting things while angry and would also apologise once they realise that it was wrong everytime. In the heat of the moment I understand and know that they will regret this later on but it affects my self respect every time and I cannot always take it that way. How should one deal with this any opinions?
I have always voiced my opinions and have discussed it with him, but it’s something that he needs to work upon and he can’t control himself with anger so whenever we fight i can’t avoid the conversation to avoid being hurt the fight needs to be sorted and he needs to improve that trait of his but unfortunately that is the only trait i have discovered in the past 5 years, the only trait that is affecting me otherwise he is a very good person and showers love to all his near and dear one’s🥺 it’s tooo complicated. But thank you so much for removing time to give your opinion. I really appreciate it.
sort of, I was in a relationship with him
Is it that evident👀 Yes now I think it wasn’t a great idea to stay in touch after breaking up because we are still attached and things are still the same. But now it’s time to detach, thanksss!!!
anuj @anujvohra
Tell ur friend to be mindful of what he or she is saying. Regarding comments, dont worry about what others are saying. It doesnt matter. You are you, other opinions are justa thought. Do good to others and tell ur friend to be positive and have control over thoughts. May be you can distance yourself for sometime when ur friend is angry. Best wishes.
Distancing myself sounds like a doable idea, and might work on him. Thank you so much.
I have never seen one men / guy who has been gentle while dealing with situations, i mean what’s the point in hurting the other person by raising the voice & saying things? Like we can have healthy arguments but this kind of behavior is very very disrespectful. If we love the person we protect them even from our own anger. Pls girl don’t tolerate this behavior of his pls be vocal about it and if it still continues end things for your own good because you deserve better, tc.
