How to take a boy out from your mind??? please help!!!
There is this boy at my workplace. He is just perfectβ¦exactly how I want my future hubby to beβ¦ everyone in office says itβs quite evident that he likes me. But I donβt wanna rush things. May be itβs just a fling? May be itβs just because we meet each other daily? May be thatβs just how he behaves with every other girl?
He is like 11/10 and I donβt even come close to 4/10. Each time we discuss something related to usβ¦he says imagined if we get married and jokes about it.
I just.came out of a 5 year relationship. Iβm vulnerable. And this boy is Just always on my mind. Pleaseeeee help!!!
I canβt ignore him cuz we are working on the same projects.
I donβt wanna get hurt again. But he is just so perfect that I canβt stop thinking about him.
Sometimes the fling is also the hintβ¦
Morever just go with the flow and try to concentrate more to the project as he is with you in it so maybe with the success of the project you two may come more closeβ¦
Iβm trying to do that. But I just canβt get him out of mind. He is thought of my mind alwaysssss. Idk why idk what idk howww
Why to do thatβ¦if he makes you happy (in your thoughts too) then i guess let it be and atleast you are friend with himβ¦
I guess in todayβs time people are craving for happiness in thoughts tooβ¦
Yeahhhhh. He just knows how to make me happy. He is like the only support system I have. The problem is I just broke up wdh my boyfriend. Iβm very vulnerable. Even a slightest ray of kindness will make me fall for them.
I donβt wanna get hurt again.
Even if we are meant together, Iβm not ready for anything now.
Take your timeβ¦ And its not like that he asked you on a dateβ¦so just take your time.
Or else take a break and think about the things you need to figure it out so you can be happy with him and your past wonβt be struck in your mind and make you hurtβ¦
(Its all about your experience that hurts)
Yeahhhh will do that. Thank you soo muchhhβ€οΈπ₯Ί
If u have 1% doubt drop him , I too had a girl at internship , she was ideal , but when I digged deeper she was just another sham , so be open with instinct than eyes / heart
Idk what kind of instinct he has. He exactly knows whatβs on my mind each time. Itβs like I canβt even hide whatβs on my mind. Itβs not even been a month since we know each other. But he knows me deepest secrets all of my insecurities which I have never shared with any human ever. He just understands me even without me uttering a word. Idk whatβs gng on.
You just suggest that I focus on the project?
Letβs talk in person?
Yeahh
Saurabh Kumar @aesthete131...
Letβs have a conversation on this and maybe then I can help u in it.
Nope thanks itβs fine
Naina Reddy @naina_23
Use your brain to think rather than your heart. Please donβt ever think that anyone is better than you. Just donβt. He can be faking it. So for my thinking you also could not develop things for him untill and unless there are signals. Just simply ask it, itβs better to get these things clear rather than assuming
Iβm just scared if I go and openly ask himβ¦it would spoil our friendship. And honestly at this time, i donβt have any other real friend.
Naina Reddy @naina_23
See from your post I understood that you really like him. But you donβt want another heartbreak. So itβs better to leave things things the way they are. Time will surely answer to your confusion.
Donβt worry if he really likes you then he will make a move.
Yeahhh trueeee. I think I like him. But may be thatβs because he is kind to me . He was there when everyone else left. He is helping me move on from my worst heartbreak.
I think you are right, let time clear the confusionβ¦
Vipul C @lupiv
In all these conversations, one things become clear. So far youβve been on your toes coz your gut/ mind/ heart say so. Have trust on these faculty of yours. This is the 6th sense, the Spidey senses tingling. On an off chance you slip, well thatβs life. You act, you might fail and youβll learn. Be optimistic. Your life is YOURS, let it be on your terms. Be sensible and go crazy
Thank you so muchβ₯οΈ Iβm trying my best.