How to slide into a girl dm ? she is totally unknown to me.

I think You are right. It will look very cringe and weird. Thanks for your advice.

Friendly advice, don't. Just please, don't, especially considering the fact that she, in your words is "totally unknown" 

Don't u worry bro I have an idea which I use more often and it's 90% working. 
First don't  say hii hello just ask for help so that u won't be considered as cringe or cheap and yes don't be cheap bro maintain the balance of your replying speed and at first don't talk about love and all stuff ohk hope u got it

Her memories hit me every time😖😖

3am Thoughts

I love you Kate Ting Lai Leng. I wish both of us could be together.

One Sided Love

My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I feel abandoned, lonely, betrayed, hurt, angry, guilty. 
I've not been able to sleep properly, eat properly or work properly. I've been crying multiple times throughout the day. I live alone. I'm introverted and I dont have any other friends, she was the only person I opened up to, ever. 
I called her today trying to talk things out, she said she didnt give a shit and I should let her live her life, she said get lost. And said that she was irritated. I had never seen her talk like this to anyone, when we were together.
I'm broken

Breakup

its been 4 months i m dating someone everything is complicated. We have a age gap of years. My partner is very unexpressive person. but i doubt sometimes she has neutral reaction for everything no anger no possesiveness no caring nature towards me. Forgets me when she is in her own world.

I am in a relationship with a girl but I still miss my ex. Let’s call my current girlfriend A and ex girlfriend B. A has already informed her parents about me and she wants to get married, B has been trying to get me back and wants to marry but just that I am in a relationship I have been saying no to her but when I see how much effort she has put into fixing the relationship I feel she deserves that chance and fix everything and marry her but at the same time I have constant fear that A will get hurt badly because she also put effort. I feel I should kill myself do that these emotional traumas will get over. I feel if I don’t exist then both of them have to move on their lives and see other people to stay with. I just don’t want to hurt anyone. But it seems like I am going to hurt either one of them.

I was in a relationship with a girl, later we sort of broke up. Later like about a month after she came back because something bad happened to her. I was considerate, helped her in everyway possible. But i wanted to know whether she loves me still or not. But she refuses to answer that saying she isn't in the position to think about all that stuff as of now. I understand her, but I don't have the capacity to handle such uncertainty i believe, I had this huge trauma thing happened to me in the past and I'm just unable to trust somebody. I don't want to be just other guy helping her. What should I do? I said this to her and she says she can't do anything about it, suggests that maybe  we should talking. What should I do now 

Relationships 
Recently I met my ex like we shared our bus ride together on same seat I was quite complex with my emotions then I saw here pretty and same loveable and I know I love her but this time I don't think it matter both of us on some different ways and I don't think it is not any better to remind her that how much I love her and I don't feel that I have left anything else for her too she took some decisions which led us to somewhere else and a question stuck in my mind that why these things happens why we can't maintain our relationship ?? There is plenty of answers but there is also one simple answer too it is clear when we priorities something or someone then we easily do anything and maybe our relationship also stuck in that points maybe with time our relationship deteriorated with plenty of other things like career time and various other social and family pressures look i know one truth that if a relationship is broken then it happens because one person withdraw there commitment and most of times other person either cheat or either give some excuses and if somebody give any kind of excuse to leave or end a relationship then remember that person never loved you and he or she just use you as a option and I believe love is one of most fierce power that gives you so much strength that you can easily overcome any problem and situations and hope we can understand that more that most people name of love to use you and beware about it 

Love

After reading most of the posts I feel bad for what I did. One girl loved me like everything she brought me back to life from a depression from my first breakup . She was there for me in every up and downs but I didn't feel like loving again after a break up. She even waited for nearly a year for me but I couldn't come over from that so I told her it's not gonna work she didn't complain about anything but I feel guilty of what I did I can feel her emotions I can feel that I broked her heart really bad. I codnt face her again now I'm married didn't saw her after that. I even felt like asking sorry is kind of insulting her now I lost her contacts Its still hurts when thinking about her

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