How to slide into a girl dm ? she is totally unknown to me.

I think You are right. It will look very cringe and weird. Thanks for your advice.

Friendly advice, don't. Just please, don't, especially considering the fact that she, in your words is "totally unknown" 

Don't u worry bro I have an idea which I use more often and it's 90% working. 
First don't  say hii hello just ask for help so that u won't be considered as cringe or cheap and yes don't be cheap bro maintain the balance of your replying speed and at first don't talk about love and all stuff ohk hope u got it

How to approach a girl with whom i wanna be fwb ??

It's feels happy to look at her from far...

Love

She is beautiful😍

Crush

Me(23M) and my girlfriend(23F) started dating 9 months ago.  We were PG mates. We finished our college 8 months ago. She's 700 km away from my home. Due to the long distance we kinda had a fair amount of bumps in our love life. Last October my dog got sick with CDV ( it's like AIDS for dogs, untreatable).  I was taking my dog for almost all the big veterinary hospitals in Chennai but nothing worked. Due to all the traveling I couldn't talk to my girlfriend. After a long heavy run I had to put my dog to sleep (euthanasia), It was the hardest choice for me. 
After that, for a week she and I connected to our love again. But this time I felt that she was kinda distant. I was really in a bad mental health cause of my dog's loss (she was my whole world). 
The second week I got a job in Assam, I desperately needed a break from my dog and my distant girlfriend so I took the job and went to Assam for 21 days. 
After coming back from Assam she was more distant from me. That made my mental health even worse. I kept asking her, she said she's fine. But I know she was not.  A month has passed. 
After that, this time I got a job for another state. And I told her to use this 21 days to see what went wrong in our relationship. She said okay.  While I was working on a job she was busy with her family gathering and trips and long bike rides.
 I returned on Feb 14 which was my birthday she didn't  reply to me. So I got mad and said some things which I'm not proud of. She got angry and said she needs one week of time. After a week she said again I need one week to think.
 I wanted to communicate with her for the whole four months but she always said TEXT ME. Always cut my calls. Avoided problem solving calls. 

Due to all the trips and bike rides she got a cold infection which put her into the hospital. Now she says, I will talk to you once I get to my home. 

Honestly guys, I don't know what did I do wrong with her ?. I apologized for my bad behaviour. I constantly overthink about her. All my friends say, try to be patient with her. But i don't know how ?? 

BTW, she was raised by good loving parents and I was raised by verbally abusive parents. I really wanted to create my own family with her. But it seems like I'm wrong.


Depression

I'm feeling unloved and unwanted. I tried talking about it with my girlfriend. But idk why I feel like that. I know that she loves me. We've been together for 4 yrs now. But still I feel like this. What I do? 

I know i made a mistake. I met this girl week before through dating site. I am already in love with her. Yesterday i was travelling and I missed My train. I lied to her that I am on train coz i didnt wanted her to worry. I know i did wrong. Long story Short she is Like you broke my trust and just stay away from me. I begged her and requested her that Dont do all this. She didnt listened to me and she is like we can b just friends. I dont trust you anymore. I am already In love and She is younger then me I have 5 years of Gap. One side i also know She has her future plans and maybe she wont stay with me. She Liked me too maybe. I lost her i dont know what should i do.. 

I like her a lot and she shares the same feeling or atleast she did when we went on a couple of dates and she told me that she liked me
We talk about it we share most of our feelings. She wants to focus on her career. I'm going abroad for higher studies. The timing is not right 
Do i have to let her go because it's hard enough for me to not be able to see her. I am stuck between this feeling that is stretching my heart.
I also don't want to impose myself or guilt trip her. Also i think she is perfect for me if i ignore some flaws that every human has..
i don't think i can see her with another guy while i can't even be with her 

I'm not in the right state to correct grammar 
so sorry if my sentences don't make sense. 

I've been into 4 relationships and 3-4 months post break up all my ex-es for some reason want me back and it feels bad to see them suffering. 
One of them accused me of everything tht happened to her and said she still loves me and wants me back. She's into another relationship and says she would cheat on her man for me. Another one wants to stay as a life long friend.
 One wants to start all over again and is promising me more efforts this time and says she will wait for me doesn't matter how long it takes. She also mentioned she could be married still would long for a relationship with me and I could be her secret "forever"
One said I could jump back in her life whenever I want to and do whatever I want to. She even said I could rape her and still she wouldn't mind.
This all is too much to bear for me. It feels so uncomfortable. I tried blocking all of them... tried to get rid of them by talking... ghosting.. everything..they just find another way to contact me again and again.
They all are just making things sound like their lives have been hell post breakup. I don't want to be with anyone now. I'm not ready. I want to be alone and at peace but it's unsettling to think that I can be at peace alone while they suffer. I feel lost and somewhat responsible. I don't know what to do...

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