How to say to a stranger who came up suddenly try to talk and you don’t want to how to say it politely to the stranger ( a male stranger)???
Anyone asking for your personal details?
Yup he did and I said not gonna tell you
Soumi Mallick @soumi22
Well I think you should ask how is it going and about their health for startin’ up a conversation and then talk about your interests to check whether you have something in common. I think that’s a good way to talk to someone you don’t know.
But to be honest I went to the park to just walk find my peace that’s why I didn’t want to interrupt that person because I go to that park daily and I don’t want to change the place and if I continue the talk he will come tomorrow and say whatever he has for that day.
Shreya Vajpai @crotchetydu...
Say I appreciate that your interest, but I’m not really in a space to talk right now and I don’t want to
I said but he didn’t listen and continued with the crap
Shreya Vajpai @crotchetydu...
Then give them a stern look and say they are really crossing their boundaries by not respecting your consent and tell them you’ll call the guards/ ask for public help/ report or something depending on where you are
Yeah, exactly the problem is they are too annoying that if I did that they will come tomorrow and instead of talking they just stare and follow which in India no one gives a crap about.
Shreya Vajpai @crotchetydu...
You are really typing all this while the guy is talking to you or is this is past experience you are talking about?
It happened today.
Shreya Vajpai @crotchetydu...
Yeah so you need to stop living in fear of what can happen. Someone violating your space is serious and you need to express it. This society will keep adding to the fears but sometimes you just need to stand up for your own self and seek help from the police if they have the audacity to harass you further. Think of it as doing it for the greater good and of saving other girls the harassment
Shreya Vajpai @crotchetydu...
*interested
I said it and he ignore it and he started telling his stuffs
Nope it will definitely change my space. Cause than it will be more staring and at the end I have to change the place which I’ll not do it.
