What’s your attachment
If anyone talks with me nicely, I get attached to them. That’s the issue.
Think of it like… it’s their nature. They talk nicely to everyone so that you can generalize it. It’s nothing special. He/she talks in the same way with everyone
No one else is spoken to as nicely and respectfully as he/she speaks to me. He/she doesn’t talk to anyone else the way he/she talks to me.
Then I guess you should tell them… if it works out.
What should I tell them?
Whatever you feel… Like you are getting attached.
I’m an introvert I can’t talk with ppl very much.
How did you get attached then… if you don’t talk much
I only talk with that person only, also to maintain boundaries I didn’t ask no or ig of them. I’m getting attached to that person so I started to ignore but that person came to talk with me.
Maybe they too wanna talk to you?.. isn’t it a possibility
For 2 weeks I haven’t talked with that person so they also started ignoring me but today suddenly they came and started talking with me.
What should I do in this situation.
If it’s a healthy attachment… keep talking with them… if you feel they too are interested in talking to you then wait for sometime and let them know whatever you feel.
Sometimes it’s just an infatuation not anything else. I may be thinking wrong but you know it better.
