how to move on  man .... its so difficult like it has been 3 years we havent talked but still I dream about him everyday and every night ... I cant find any guy so hot and  so fucking cute ... He is currently dating my friend its so painstaking to watch  him posting photos with her .... I cry every night .. I cant face him as I know the moment I saw him I'll start crying ... He was my best friend  he was my everything I ever wanted I am an introvert I never opened up to anyone but him ...... in this 3 years I  havent talk to any guy as I am introvert and idk I dont feel like talking with any other guy I cry every night .... I feel so worthless . He was not a bad guy we equally made  mistakes and decided to part our ways apart but I am still into him and cant have him  back again in my life 

3 years it’s a lot maybe you just love the idea , the construction you Made of him … there’s this song the idea of you from mxmtoon it’s cool 

Breakup

My “bf” have been saying some hurtful things like I’m “mentally unstable” because I told him that he likes other girls photos and mines not so much. He doesn’t make me feel loved and I think maybe it’s my fault 😢😔 I’ve been feeling so bad and anxious lately and want to talk with someone. Maybe I’m mentally unstable idk but he makes me feel invalidated and crazy. Im looking for therapy but it’s so hard to find I don’t have a job and that also makes me feel bad. Also I think I might be bisexual or even a lesbian 

Anxiety

8 months and moving on it’s difficult still can’t sleep at night cry to sleep and next day get back to work what to do ??? People say it was just a lockdown time pass a year relationship but for me I was serious my feelings were . My heart aches at night I miss him so much I really loved me but I watched him give up on me. 

What should I do if I'm not happy in my own relationship? 
So for context, lately I've been feeling a little off in my relationship. So my partner says he's giving his best in this relationship, and I'm sure he does. And I'm giving my 100% as well. 
But our expectations aren't matching. 
More honestly, he isn't matching up to my expectations. And it's an extremely painful thing to say to your partner that even though you're giving in your 100%, it's still not meeting my expectations.
I used to not say these things out loud earlier. But now I feel like I should express that I'm not getting what I want in a relationship. It's not about hurting the other person, but more about not disappointing and trivialising your wants and needs. 
Even after expressing, I did ask him to not take that pressure, and that I'm only saying it to be truthful to him. 

I do like him and respect him a lot. But if my expectations aren't matching, what more can I do? 

Overthinking

I have to tell you guys this, today I talked to my guy best friend, I actually have feelings for him. Should I like a give a lil flashback? Oh wait I think I should hehe. 
I changed my school in Class 11th and in 12th I met this guy, I never liked him initially but because of peer pressure I thought I liked him but it was just infatuation. We were having a thing but then something happened that I backed off and we agreed to stay friends after that. Life was going great! We were the best of friends, we used to mock each other, laugh and basically we were having a good time together as friends. I actually had a habit which he never liked which was that I was very reserved and I never shared my feelings or anything with anyone. Whenever we used to have a fight, I would simply back off and not talk to him and pretend nothing happened, idk why I was like that before. Lockdown happened, we used to call each other everyday, we became super close, we used to talk about success, growth good things in general. Then one day on November, something happened and he wrote me something which I didn’t like but I didn’t say him anything and I was a lil mad, after that day we literally stopped talking. It felt like we are parting ways and there’s nothing I can do about it. We literally didn’t talk for 4 freaking months, I kept overthinking why but I never dared to ask him because it was just so hard for me to believe it was happening. I never imagined it, after 4 months I got the guts to ask him why he left this friendship, he told me the reason and actually it was my fault, I had a very care free attitude before. I said I’m sorry for my behaviour and he has forgiven me. Also, he has a girlfriend now but I have feelings for him. Umm I don’t know I just can’t imagine my life without him, talking about his girlfriend, she’s from Japan or somewhere idk they have never met obv, so I am still living with some hopes lol. We talk everyday now.I can listen to him for hours and never get bored. So basically today he asked me that what do I think how long we will stay friends? You know what my answer is forever, sounds cliche but he has no idea how much he means to me! I love him without any expectations:)

Love

I recently had a crush on a significantly older guy I met online. I have no dating experience at all. I really like the fact that we are able to talk about random things. Though I know for a fact that he doesn't like me because he's really good looking, I can't help but wait for his messages.
It's causing an ache in my heart but I can't let him go.

Delusion

Feeling weird. I've never put in so much effort in a relationship but no matter what I do, its ever enough for my boyfriend. He just thinks I'm not investing 'enough'. After he pestered me, I agreed that okay, yes probably we are on a different page, but as long as we are on the same chapter, IT IS OK. But clearly not, I don't know or understand, what I should do or not do to make it work. I really love him and do everything in my power to make him happy. I am not trying to victimize myself. He does a lot too, and really values this. 

As per him, he thinks from a long term perspective and I, from a short term, day-to-day basis. This, according to him, reflects in our differing standards, decisions, responses, etc. Thus, although I told him "Im getting there", he is skeptical that he may not be there by the time I get there. But why should we ruin what we have today and the present in anticipation of what may or may NOT happen in the future. 

I know this can turn into something beautiful and magnificent. But this rough patch, hopefully, is just a phase. At the end of the day, HOPE is all that we can live with. We love each other, undoubtedly, but I don't know what is it that I did that has poked holes in this. 




Long Distance Relationship

He said he will text me .. but from 1 week it's just silence . Is it way to get rid of me 

Got of frm a serious relationship. Aftr giving him unlimited chances finally I realised tht this cnt happen. It’s been a week no contact frm my side, suddenly able to see all the red flags in him which I avoided. 

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