3am Thoughts

How to know if he likes me or not 😂

Love

How to know if a boy like u ( online)? 

Boyfriend

How to know if a guy likes you? 

Crush

How do you know if guy has a secret crush on you?

How do you know if a guy is only flirting with you or actually likes you

So I want to talk about my crush situation. It’s not exactly a crush I think. There is this senior from my UNI whom I don’t LOVE love or LIKE like but more like who is he, what is he, I wanna know him, and I want HIM TO KNOW ME and that’s it. Like I think I need his attention and time and want him to be my friend more than my lover.
I don’t think so I need love or I am seeking for a lover. I don’t think college peeps are mature enough to understand & handle relationships, even I am not. We are just young, dumb and broke. So NO.
But yeah, i like him. Because he is - simple,shy, stays low key, and okay he kinda looks nerdish which I look because nerdish kinda guys makes me feel safe around them so~ and for now that’s all I know about this guy. I DON’T KNOW HIM. EXACTLY MY POINT.
And I want to kinda know him. I wish to have him as a friend.
And even if I have a crush on him, I don’t want to fall in love now. Not at this age of 19. I and most of us don’t even understand the concept of love but then
I believe LOVE is FRIENDSHIP.
So I wish to be a friend. And see now it works and goes. But that’s just how and what it is. Just a WISH.
Because this person doesn’t even know me. And I already sent him a follow request which he accepted and even followed back but now it feels so dumb like I stalked him which I did but now like…NOW I THINK HE KNOWS THAT… Like obvious isn’t it?! But then he seriously doesn’t even watch or notice my stories which I sometimes purposely put for him but then I have another excuse for that. Hehe.
He only has 206 followers and not really a social media person it seems like. He has only one post that too it looks like his friends forced him to take the pic and upload it.
But then I read the comments I felt jealous like Wtf! Lol. OKAY enough. PLEASE IGNORE THIS.
Because at the end I know that I don’t want to fall in love now. Like not at this age and even if I end up falling…i am going to run away from it. Otherwise I will get distracted and won’t focus on my goals and studies which will lead to a future that I don’t want and then few years later i’ll have to get married and be that BAHU things which I never ever want in my life. Like I can die but marriage and children fuck it! Never!

I have feelings for someone and I can not let him know. He is very kind to me and checks in with me almost every single day. But I am a bit confused. I don't know if he has feelings for me or if he is just friendly towards me.
I am starting to think I should just stop talking to him cause it is gonna hurt so bad to get over him.  I don't want to tell him that I have feelings to only learn he doesn't. 

I have this one guy who I like.. We have been shipped in our building since childhood as husband and wife.. During rakshabandan when I asked him that can I tie u rakhi? He said yes deliberately cause our frnds who ship us were standing right they did not let me tie him rakhi... He winked at me afterwards... Now how should I find out if he likes me Or not? 

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