How to know if a guy you’re talking to for like 8-9 months is not cheating on you or is serious about you?

BTW he use to come and visit me once in 2 months as lives in another state.

And I’m totally into him. 

But he says he can’t give me hopes by committing because he hasn’t settled yet like he is not earning much, not a stable job, also he has some dream which is not done yet.  I don’t know what should I say to him or what should I do?

What if at the end he says we don’t have any future? :(

Sometimes we tend to overthink...but lstn to your guts gurll!! You are a  strong women!!Do what you feel ryt..
P.s:sorry for the late reply

Honestly give him tym..if he wasn't serious he wouldn't come to meet you every now n then

Love

Kuch kehna tha usse , bas keh nii Paya.....Dimag me bhuchaal aaya tha , bas zuban par na aaya.

3am Thoughts

Hey guys new here just wanna talk 
Soo..just comment your problems and I'll try to solve it go ahead I'll not judge.

Dreams

My mom loves to control my life. She's like I should sit when she said,I should stand when she says. If I questioned, I became the arrogant child. 
For her,I should do whatever she says without flinching.
For God's sake,I'm 26 now. I swear once I got into residency I won't come back home for months.

How do you know when a person is lying?

Life is un expected when it suck's you will get what is meaning of the life

Breakup

I don't know why im writting this.. but i hope someone can helps me... im almost 17 year old ... i can't sleep at night , im afraid of going to bed ( afraid of cannot sleep and stay awake till morning ) that's make serious problem i can't even laugh at day just stressing and thinking how im gonna sleep this night and when its the time to sleep i try hard but i can't i start crying and i feel so bad like there's something on my chest , i Can't breath well feeling lonely 🥺🥺🥺

Insomnia

Okay. So let me get this straight. There are these two guys who are kinda stuck on my mind right now. Let's just name them 'A' and 'B' and we all are studying in the same school.

I've liked person 'A' for like almost 3 years because i had come to know that he had liked me too. When I started liking him back, he completing ignored me and liked another girl. But know we're really good friends and sometimes even discuss about the time we crushed on each other. But sometimes he gives off the hints which is just really confusing.

On the other hand, me and person 'B' had become close online friends from out of no where. We even stayed up till 4 on Jan 1st and we were chatting all night sending reels. We would even flirt through the text. I had known that he used to have a crush on me and the while class knew it. So they always tease me with him. Although we don't talk much with each other at school.

This is so confusing..
Both of them a way too nice and just give off the "💞✨💖👹😩💀💫 " hints. Help. Am so confused 💀




Crush

I don't know wts wrng with me,it's like I don't have the will to do anything anymore. I am really disappointed in myself,I haven't done anything new during my stay at home(due to covid I had to stay at home, otherwise I would be in hostel) Now my college is reopening and I do feel happy but when I look back at the time I wasted I feel disappointed 😞.

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