How to handle yourself and not compare to others… I’ve a few close friends who have been very lucky to be in a few relationships… I get very upset that I am not in a relationship and it’s not like I don’t try myself…but somehow I’m unable to find someone who i can enjoy with… 😔 This gives me anxiety and I fear a lot that I might not find someone myself
How old are you dear.
24… So I feel that I should be having a good social life by now
Lol. I’m 25. And i suck at being social.
And if anyone asks me who your friend is. I can’t really answer. Bcoz i don’t know clearly.
And romantic relationship, not even in dreams. Studied mech engineering, at work no girls in team. And friends, barely any. No visits to social places. No chance for me.
Am i anxious, yes. Do I wish for a more social life. Yes! But I also wish for some solitude. And less drama in life.
And social anxiety keeps me away from ppl.
Don’t compare yourself to your friends or others social life. Obviously easier said than done although works wonders.
Moreover I feel that if you keep on chasing something specially a relationship of any kind you’d just end up not getting it. Slow down a bit and try not to chase. Give yourself all the time and energy. And see how it works out.
