How to get rid of my cousin sister, im feeling uncomfortable with her, she keep on sitting on my lap and iam thinking she tempting me, she keep on moving close to me even through i inappropriate touches her, im feeling discomfort when she comes to me, and talking to me, i loves her so much , but her behaviour is different with me. Im feeling shy to tell her, i keeping distance from her but she keep on coming to me, she is married, im getting sexual feelings when is behaving like this with me , i have less control on my feelings , what should i do she keep on getting close to me even i sexual touches her. Donโt know what she is thinking.
2 years she got married at 19 years to our relative 30 year man
Now she is 26 years with one child of 5 years old
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I have taught like you said but now im become bad, alot of things have happened between us i got so emotional and mental torture. now they stopped talking to me, she completely reverse the situations and saying ur my bro so i moved close. Everyone knows that now im paying price for thinking about her life all r happy but im not
I attempted suicide as well thinking how am changed like this my character has changed im feeling bad about it
I donโt know hindi
Can we chat personnel
No girl will do this to her brotherโฆ so may be you are taking it wrongโฆ may be you are touching her but she is not getting itโฆ she is just comfortable with youโฆ do not do anything immature
I donโt know what to do, I have done something now everything gone wrong,
Hmmโฆ maybe it was just in your headโฆ
Thatโs not true๐if you read his pov carefully, she used to sit on his lap even if that made him uncomfortable, she was obviously not satisfied in her marriage. I have heard a lot of such cases. Idk why do you have to blame men for everything. He was responsible too. But he was not the only one responsible. Get that straight. And I am a girl.
I am not blaming anyoneโฆ i just told him to be careful and not to misjudge anything
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I stopped talking to her after i misbehaved with her and its unlike my character, today she talked to me and asked me how r you, i wish to talk ti her but im getting feeling that i may get hurt or i hurt her again, confuseddand stressing between this situation
What to do now
Just take a stand. She wonโt be able to hurt you if you donโt give her the power to hurt you. You just have to pretend as if you donโt care anymore. And eventually youโll be able to get hold of it. You just have to talk to her and tell her that you canโt continue doing all this. Itโs wrong. For both of you. And your partners and families. If she gets it, good. If she doesnโt, you have to part ways right away.
I have sexually touches her sometimes, i remembering all this things and hating myself im not able to forgive myself but donโt know why she is talking to me even want i done, im not able to talk to her.
I have done somany wrong things as well, am i losing caring and loving one ,about thinking so much. I wish to talk to her but im stopping myself,i have come back from suicidal situation to back my normal state im happy now, when i thing about her or when she is around now she is in our home, iam getting panic attract donโt know why.
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I can understand. Maybe she is feeling guilty too, thatโs why she is trying to talk to you. Or maybe she is expecting that you have changed and things can be normal between you two. I guess having a conversation with her will actually sort things out. If you canโt meet her in real life try talking online.
Im feeling afraid to talk to her, she talking to me nicely but im not able to talk to her bcz of fear earlier i used to talk very well, now im not talking im avoiding, then im feeling sad i know how its feels when someone ignores us, im thinking she getting hurt and she has no parents no support only her husband and kid i used to be support to them, she used to move so close with me, now i have done like this, yes im mentally upset with this situation, i gone to wrost phase of my life, now im happy, i need to talk to her but im not able to speak im shiving when she is around how can i talk to her, i wish to talk to her and sort this out , she forgiven me for that i done wrong to her, she said to my dad that he will not talk to me , she is feeling sad for im not talking to her, is she has tyat much of caring on me Nd love,. I also have same love and caringtowards her but this disturbance made us like this , i really wants her in my life i wants to talk in phone r direct but im not able to speak I donโt know what to do. Really its very difficult for me to seeing her and not talking to her
Even i have done this to her, she is the one first to talk, im not talking like i used to talk before, i know its hurt her and i know how its feels, im also getting hurt when i not talking to her, but what should i do,. Im thinking i may hurt her again, i suffered alot after what i have done now im happy everything come back to normal, my health and my thought process, if i talk to her and things got normal btw us im afraid i may get to that same situation i suffered before, im afraid that i may face that painfull situations again. Thatโs why im avoiding and not talking to her, but she trying to talk and help me when im doing some work, watching me when i see her she look some where , I donโt know what she is thinking about me, im confused to what to do.
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