How to get over a guy? I'm occupied with thoughts of him 24/7 every day. I'm trying various methods and none seems to work out for me

Meditation, distracting in work, traveling, exploring diff hobbies

Ik , it is , it took me almost 5 months and more to completely get over

Then I have to just let time do its thing. Painful

But you have to push up , it's not happening all of its own

Interact with other people , try doing things which engage more of you , I did the same to forget her lol

Aarthy

Dales

Try me ,you will never regret dear🙋‍♂️👀😇😁

I am also facing the same since last month but i cant get over it 

Mann

Boyfriend

I really like my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 3 years now. I never told my parents about him because they are super strict and would definitely be pissed off at me for being in a relationship. Of course, I want to proceed with things on another level with him as in getting engaged and married. But, I don't see it happening. My mom has been finding guys whom I don't even know to get us married. I don't want to get married to some guy whom I do not know. They just do not understand me. I told them about my boyfriend recently. They were so mad, and they told me to forget him. My boyfriend has a stable job, a loving guy. I'm so heartbroken. My mum is forcing me to get myself married to some random guy. AAAAAAAAAAAA. I don't know what to do.  

Stress

You guys really need to help me here ok. Soo my bf who i love way too much and ik he loves me too ok but he ugh tbh i don’t have the words anymore i just need more love and attention from him and i feel like I’m the only one who’s putting in the efforts like i literally do anything for that guy and i can’t even think about leaving him cuz I’m soo in love.

So guys I am dating a guy since 3 months now and we have alot of quarrels  feel I am a problematic person and he's understood me way enough I keep frustrating him I legit feel he deserves a better girl cause I am just making him unhappy the person I love is the same person who is hurt by me he's cried real bad for alot of times now idk what should I do I so wanna be with him but I feel I am just ruining his life giving him stress should I back out for good (typing this brings me tears) that guy is super loving so hurting him is a crime I feel but I am so complicated ughhh guys suggestions please...

I Don't know what to do with my life
I want to tell what I feel right now I have feelings for 2 guys right now.
One I am in love with him from my 6th grade I don't know any one other than him now am 27 our bond was intense and strong at my 10th grade my family got to know about our relation and they are not at all happy with me and had a big fight at home and they beat me up for this(main reason is he a Muslim and am Hindu),But we continued our relation that time we don't have mobiles like now we are in different colleges for +1 and +2 and we are communicating to each other frequently so only we can see each other yearly twice and continued till our engineering and every year we got caught by my parents and I have to face humiliations , beating and emotional black mail of my parents suicide. He is very caring and loving but he has anger management issues from childhood. May be we are in relation from very young age we have lot of beautiful memories of our love as well sad. We had pressure from both families to stop this relationship. After long 12 years of Relation ship we had a breakup(I have said break up as the situation in both families is becoming worse and he loves his family a lot can't leave them to come along with me) and I have said him to move on with his life he didn't agreed but for his sake and make him to move on I was rude and bit harsh to him. I said him not to contact me. He cried and requested but I didn't agreed even I am broken and crying for him. He didn't contacted me for next 2 years and I got to know that he is moved on. I still love him from bottom of my heart.

Here comes the second one whom I met in my office and he know me from the first day of my office and he supported me through my break up and he knows everything about my firstlove. After one year of all this second guy proposed me for marriage but I said him I need time. I thought I should move on and accepted him and we are happy he is very calm and kind and takes care of me as my family is forcing for my marriage I have given the second guy details to them even now they are not happy as I have choose and I didn't gave chance to them. But I was frim and unhappliy they accepted.

Here comes the problem the first guy is waiting from me hoping that one day I will be back to him and his love is unconditional.

I have feelings for both I can't choose one and I can't cheat anyone by getting married and thinking about another one.

Mean while from last year am suffering with chronic migriane ,depression and anxeity. I am felling to commit suicide but a thought what happen to them if I commit sucide is stopping me.I feel to run away from every one.I know am the reason for all these things.Now I have no interest to work on anything no interest to talk to anyone.I don't know how to explain to my parents that i don't want to get married now.

Was dating this guy for 2 months and everything was great but he doesn't want anything for a long term , whereas I am someone who doesn't want to date for timepass like I want to see a future otherwise I feel it's a wasting of emotions. So i talked with him and we broke up . I don't know but it makes me feel empty 

Love

If anyone of you remembers I posted a few days back about a stingy guy I met on a dating app
So Today he told me that he doesn't believe in proposals because he thinks it's just waste of time and the thing which he doesn't like to spend.
Does he really think after listening to all this any girl will date him?? 

Other

I'm not really feeling good
He moved on so quickly it hurts. It only took him a few days to get another girl and it hurts so much because I did everything I could for him and I get treated horribly back. I wish I never met him.

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