How to get detachment from her mentally?
Gender & Age: Male, 23
Description:
I proposed a girl on 16 August 2022 and she said No. I think she likes someone else. And, for the past 3 weeks, everynight, I used to dream about her very often. I blocked her on WhatsApp and deleted all the chats with her. To get rid of her, I complaint about girls to the Principal that they are wearing miniskirts so please update strict uniform dress code. I did this so that all the girls (including my love interest) stay away from me, so that’s why from this day onwards, she is not talking me via WhatsApp like how earlier she used to chat with me regarding studies and exams’ notes. And not only this but also, I attended total 26 hours (13 days) of Vedanta course to grow Spiritually and Intellectualy so that I can forget about her, but still she is coming to my dreams in night. Also, I am consuming medicines made from Cobra venom because I am treating that girl to be a snake, and her love to be it’s poison so the antidote of ‘Loveria’ would be same as medicine made from Cobra poison
Sounds like the plot of nagin serial
If it’s so, then I got saved because there’s a kind of possibility that she will marry me only with the intention of killing me.
Phantom @vx6098
About time you stopped. I see you have difficulty is accepting the situation for what it is. A day would come when you might even say no to her or some other girl. Would you want them to behave irrationally the way you are? It’s a fault of neither of you that this didn’t click but the key is it didn’t click NOW. A lot of times it’s just a timing issue. You may cross paths again and hopefully decide to have a good laugh about the way you handled this but no more. Stop whatever it is you’re doing and let it go.
All this time you are wasting now over one girl, if you continue to do so, you will regret it later in life…this is the time you should br focusing on your career, think about your parents how they will feel if they know your wasting you time and emotions on something so trivial…first grow and mature in life, then your attitude will change and you will find someone suitable to you…relationships and break ups are part of life they will happen, but if you ignore your career now you will regret it your entire life…so choose what is your priority…
