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Anonymous

How to express jealousy in a positive way?
Me and my BF are in a LDR. And I don’t want to have a big argument with him, but also I don’t want to keep this jealous feeling. I want to tell him that I’m jealous but I don’t know how to say it.

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Anonymous

What is it that you are jealous about.

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Anonymous

I see him on a trip with someone else

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Anonymous

But he doesn’t know that I know about it

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Anonymous

Ohh, so just say it that in way that he’ll not be angry, like in a silly way, like you get it right.
Or just tell him that you get jealous sometimes when you see him on a trip with somebody, but then you remember how much he loves you n all.

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Anonymous

Ohhhhh

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Anonymous

Thalli you’ll have to take it out from him first, and then you’ll have to do it, I guess.

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Anonymous

I’m not sure he’ll open up about that thing with me… or should I try to slightly provoke about it?

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Anonymous

Yeah that too, but be on safe side through out it. Don’t let the turn tables on you.

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Anonymous

Okay then, I’ll try to figure it out. Thank you for the good advice ❤️

singh @devyansh01

Tell him directly

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How? I mean… I’m not good at expressing my feelings… and I don’t want it to turn into a negative thing, like big argument…

singh @devyansh01

Tell him in simple way that u r jealous bcz u love him…

Veddiex @veddiex

Try to eliminate the feeling of jealousy, u don’t have to feel that way if I’m being honest here.
it’s okay to feel that way if u ask me but if you successfully eliminate the feeling. Trust me you’ll be a really happy person as jealousy induces toxicity in your life .

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Askaa! @aska

Hey don’t think too much over it!! Just talk to ur bf about it, holding the feeling eil eventually ruin your relationship better try to express yourself in a healthy way and communicate about this with him. If he loves you he must understand you right!❣

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Anonymous

Yeah, that’s the problem… I don’t know how to express my feelings in a healthy way… I’m afraid to communicate and turning into a fight

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Anonymous

If you think he’s cheating on you, tell him immediately

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