How to Deal with a father Who always Replys you Rudely anything you talk to Him Ask Or Just Say What You feel. I Get frustrated Seeing His Behaviour I dont Like it 😑

It's fine. If he doesn't wanna talk, it means that he doesn't care. And if he doesn't care why should you

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yaa He dosent care for me its my mistake i still expect from Him

Start avoiding him, maybe it will work. I know it makes you more distant but maybe he will realize it, be silent around him, but even though he does get angry then just ask him why is he very rude. 

Just because they are our parents or any relative, it doesn't give them the right to treat you like dirt, it doesn't mean that they can disrespect you and you still have to be all nice to them. You are your own individual and your sanity is so much more important than anything. 
If your father is as rude as you say, don't try to talk to him until he asks or comes to talk to you and even when he comes you reply the way you want. 
Stay strong 💫

Parenting

i really just want my dad to love me

Frustration

This household isn’t for people who want to thrive in life - you try do something good & automatically get shut down because it’s not “the way dad likes it” 


3am Thoughts

I'm 25 years old. My father has never taken any responsibility on me. Should I continue staying at home or just move out?

Anxiety

I'm literally out right now because my dad yelled at me and I think this is called mental abuse? 😃He has issues with his siblings and then he express his anger to me and my family. It's so messed up. He is a good father he gives us all but mentally he destroyed us. I won't go home tonight because that was too much! I'll see my uncle. My mom will talk with my dad. I won't accept another stupid apology from him but I also need him for money lol. Help?!

Anger Issues

Im 23old I love my mom so much and also my dad, but im getting angry always on them im hating myself , i have seeing them they always fights and scold at each other i used to see them, they love each other but they there is nk understanding between them, my mom not like my dad thoughts and he also , i tolerant them and control they fights and behaviour, but now iam shouting at them, its unlike my behavior im hating myself, my love them so much but they not quitted fights between i have send so many times both of them about this but they never listen to me, if one should stop the fight will be stopped know i have send this so many times, they verbal abuse each other not that extreme, they not fights and argues very much but everyday they argues so much im hating it im going through bad phase of my life , im not able to control my emotions and im scolding at them.

I have so much to tell to my dad but he never listen to us he always anger, and behaves like child no tension no worries, in my 23years life he never asked me how your studies going and its everything good, he cares for me but he never talks to me nicely, how much we can tell to my mother , my friend all drinks and smoke , once i send my mom about this she never give permission to met my friends and go with friends, later i never tell my mother about my daily activities, i seems to be happy outside but im not happy inside.
 
Im hating myself , i shouting at my parents , how can i scold them not able to control my tongue and emotional help me,

Family

I had a panic attack ot and anxiety attack about joining a zoom call for English tutoring , I have no idea why. When I told my dad he said that I was a liar and I didn’t actually have one, btw he was downstairs eating dinner with my sisters and grandparents so there was no way I was gonna go down there in the state that I was, plus he has never been helpful with my panic attacks in the past, anyway he proceeded to tell me that I have no clue what it is like to have problems like that, and that he has have anxiety for 40 years ( he’s 44) and that I’m just manipulative and trying to get out of doing the call. My younger sister later stepped in trying to back me up. My dad kept yelling at me for 15 minutes and eventually stormed off, he went for a drive and came back, my sisters when to talk to him while he was in the car and he told them that I was close to being kicked out to my mums who is an alcoholic ,so there was no way I’d go there but my dad said didn’t care where I went, he did t kick me out but I can’t remember what happened after that, most of it is a blur, although this happened last month

Every time I think of my dad it hurts honestly

I'm disappointed from my dad. He does help ma but if he's in mood of it, he disrespects her often. I mean why is this so common. You know I've a little brother I don't want him to be like that. Papa is a really good person I know but sometimes somethings hurt!!!

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