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Anonymous

How much a guy looks matter for girls.

P.s : would appreciate honest ones.

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Anonymous

Relatively less that how much looks matter to men for their partners and I can vouch for that

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Anonymous

Okay a good scale, and what exactly in looks to go more specific

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Anonymous

Ik looks can be decieving but i would still say Just someone who doesnt look like a creep…

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Anonymous

Haha correct.

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Anonymous

Hi, honestly it’s looks that attract someone to another person at a first glance. But if you’re good looking and your personality sucks then for me it’s a no go.

However if you’re not as attractive but you have a shinning personality then it’s definitely you over some insanely attractive dude.

And from what I can tell in the long run females tend to choose personality over looks. And if she loves you then I doubt she will card of you’re attractive or not.
For me being attractive is just a bonus.

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Anonymous

Thanks for this elaborated answer. Got it that rather than looks, personality is the real magnet. But if we go more specific, how do you define personality. What exactly is that

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Anonymous

For me if he treats me right and is not rude towards others and actually makes an effort. Then I’ll be giving him more than one date definitely but if you mean whether he should be funny, smart, quiet, quick witted, it just depends on what the girl likes.

For me I don’t mind any as long as I can see you’re genuinely interested and you care about people. Oh and he doesn’t do one of my pet peeves.

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Anonymous

A man with class and courteous.

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Anonymous

I guess, but he can be classy and courteous but he has to know how to treat people right. Personal answer

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Anonymous

If one loves his personality,thoughts then everything about him starts getting better …looks don’t matter that much…because at that time,whatever he does seems cute,sweet etc

Maybe…I think so…idk about others but this is my point of view

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Anonymous

Honestly looks do matter. I cannot date a person I am not attracted to. But looks are not the most important thing, I’ll not date someone just because they’re attractive but are not a great person overall.

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Anonymous

Got it.

AKANSHA @unhingeme

Tbh, for me looks doesn’t matter, his personality does the way he thinks, his thoughts and some decency !!

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