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Lady bee @ladybee

How many more times do we as women need to shut her mouth because knowing her man is emotionally and mentally abusive ,what is suppose to brake this , why do I feel useless. I was looking at some videos of myself before I met him and I said to myself where is she at…I felt like I didn’t know who she was when looking at myself…Idk why I feel like some man broke me.

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Anonymous

What you’re feeling is absolutely valid.
Try getting help and start working on yourself again. Look after yourself. Take care of yourself.
And if possible, try working on becoming independent (financially and socially), so that you can maybe leave him in the future and live in peace.

Lady bee @ladybee

The socially and financially was not what kept me around …im very established woman…I believed I stayed because of the affection and attention I received from him whenever we were good…cuz I never had it in my marriage that I left 6 yrs ago

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Anonymous

Then it’s time to leave another one. Value your own mental peace above all. Keep exploring. Or don’t. Whatever you want. You always have a choice. Don’t forget that.

Lady bee @ladybee

Thank you, 🙏 I understand I know I need to…but I feel sooo heart broken it hurts cuz despite all I’m a person that loves humans…and I can’t change the fact I wanna run to him again, but I know I will continue to be sad…cry all the time…feel not enough, always make me out that I was wrong when I wasn’t… I know and that’s why I’m here trying to write out …then going to text him or call him…I need to figure out how to express what I have on my mind

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Sky K @skyinnight

Yes of course. It’s a very tough decision. But sometimes you have to bear a little bit of pain to move to a more peaceful situation. This little bit of pain of breaking up will hopefully bring you a huge relief and mental peace once you’re away and over it. You can build a place for yourself and keep yourself busy. Maybe start doing some small things for yourself. Skincare? Haircare? Meditation? Yoga? Sports? Stuff like that helps.

Lady bee @ladybee

Thanks 🙏

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Sky K @skyinnight

No problem <3

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