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Anonymous

How is it even possible to have respect for your father even though you hate him to your core?

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Anonymous

U want to talk?

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Anonymous

Yes please

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Anonymous

Can u telle why u hate him?

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Anonymous

Oh it’s quite a list

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Anonymous

U can tell me frnd

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Anonymous

It’s hard right, i can feel you. I hate my dad too

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Anonymous

Are there any specific reasons or is it just a feeling?

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Anonymous

There’s a reason😩. You wanna connect?

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Anonymous

Definitely

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Anonymous

I can’t figure out how… Tell me how to add since I’m new to this

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Anonymous

Done

Aestheticgurrl @ssitwat

Sometimes I feel it’s a love hate relationship, you can’t cut ties but can’t even stand them in the same room

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Anonymous

Oh it’s definitely a hate relationship
Respect for him comes out of necessity not want or need

Aestheticgurrl @ssitwat

Do you think are they justified for their behavior?

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Anonymous

Not at all
If it was in fact justified I wouldn’t even dare share about him at this point of time

Aestheticgurrl @ssitwat

I am scared of finding a partner after knowing my father’s reality, it sucks how it messed me up and I’m not sure if I’m ever getting over it. Even though I want to be loved but I guess I can never trust

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Anonymous

Exactly
Even though I am totally different from my father now I somehow get scared of turning out to be like him… That scares the shit outta me

Aestheticgurrl @ssitwat

I’ve been taunted to be like him, and that’s equally bad

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Anonymous

Thats worse… When you know you’ve been trying your damn good to not be like him in any manner

Aestheticgurrl @ssitwat

Exactly, being a daughter and still getting the title is just unexplainable.

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Anonymous

And i thought i was the only one fed up from their father…
Me being a guy have taught myself to outgrow these feelings in the most positive way possible for me… As we boys can be distant from their fathers…
But its a whole different story for girls like you out there

I hope you outgrow these feelings too
And soon

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Anonymous

This is something I relate to too. It’s difficult to hate your own blood, the person who’s name you carry and still feeling obligated to respect him. Wanna talk in person?

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Yes please

roshni @roshnihere

Add me 🌸

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Anonymous

It says I’ve used up all my connection requests

roshni @roshnihere

Switch to your own account and I’ll add you

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