Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

oo that’s a tricky one. have you guys been in a relationship or is it just a sort of you like them and want to get over them?

we’ve been together for two years since I was a freshman now I’m in my third year it’s inevitable we’ll have to me in the corridors and classrooms.

so you two are broken up since last year? and if you always meet in the corridors you can maybe walk another route or distract yourself by talking to others and for the classroom i cant think of anything but blocking them out and focusing on work or talking with others in class if you know them. and for the mutuales are they more of your friends or theirs?

mutuals*

we’re split on gender lines there are male friends of mine that are her friends doing class projects with her and there are some of her friends with whom I’m working with.

honestly i think it’s a little weird for your friends to be doing projects with her unless it wasn’t their decision and it was the teachers choice. the best advice i can give you is to keep your mind distracted on other things like school work or hobbies you enjoy and eventually you’ll stop thinking about them then get over them because your brain will be so busy with other things than them. if there’s anything else or more you need to ask feel free to do so

im sorry to hear that. if you want to explain why it does feel free to

well you shouldnt listen to what anyone says about you unless its in a positive perspective. it might be hard to block them out but seriously you shouldnt listen to what negative thing they have to say about you. and you shouldnt feed into their actions by thinking “they might be right” because their wrong. and you shouldnt hate yourself or feel like shit, ik thats not easy to do believe me ik but feeling like that and then believing negative things said about u can worsen everything . try to surround yourself with what makes you happy, whether that be your favorite hobbies, or some people you feel comfortable with. if theres anything else you want to add feel free to do so, don’t feel like you shouldnt tell me anything :)

thank you so muchh you really made me feel better … actually its just not about what people say to me its also about how i hate myself so much i find myself so hopless i think theres nothing i can do in my life i am not at all talented what am i gonna do in future i feel so lost in these thoughts everyday i just show my happy side to people they can never imagine how mentally frustrated i am i am worried about myself i dont wanna completely collapse mentally i know i need help but i find it very selfish of me to ask for help from my friends cause i know everyone has their own problems in their life

hey. you are not perfect because NO ONE IS and bro trust me this world is so big… There are so many types of people and everyone thinks they are less than others. You are probably surrounded by a type of ppl you shouldn’t be with. Try being by yourself, start with making new small group friends or online friends.

hey i completely understand you and how u find its “selfish” to ask for help but honestly even if others are going through their own things they should be able to still help you out. im positive if you tell your friends whats happening they’ll understand and you can get everything off ur mind. if you aren’t comfortable enough to do that then you are free to tell me everything thats on your mind.