anuj @anujvohra
Efforts and meeting people in real…also meeting school and college friends helps…
Efforts usually tend to be one sided
anuj @anujvohra
Put efforts without much thinking that it is one sided or both side…if you connect genuinely it works.
Trust me, have been doing that all my life. You trust people, let them in, think they are really good friends, and they end up leaving, then you start all over again. That’s just been the cycle. It’s frustrating, to a point where you don’t have the energy to do all of this over and over again just to get hurt.
Losing friends hurts more than even a relationship ending.
That’s how it has been for a while, but it does get lonely you know.
Well, no one here is sitting crying in a corner like ‘ohh I’ve no friends I’m lonely’, but it won’t be nice to have a few friends to talk to, go out with for a change instead of doing things all by yourself.
Addy @spartan_adictus
The advantage of having a friend in your 30’s is you know what kind of people you need. So that pool is already small. Watch their vibes and decide if you want to approach. Give some time. Coz it will take some effort for the trust to build. Love❤️
When you find out, let me know? 😅 I am also on that boat lol
