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@autumnwinds

How does one make new friends in their 30s??

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anuj @anujvohra

Efforts and meeting people in real…also meeting school and college friends helps…

@autumnwinds

Efforts usually tend to be one sided

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anuj @anujvohra

Put efforts without much thinking that it is one sided or both side…if you connect genuinely it works.

@autumnwinds

Trust me, have been doing that all my life. You trust people, let them in, think they are really good friends, and they end up leaving, then you start all over again. That’s just been the cycle. It’s frustrating, to a point where you don’t have the energy to do all of this over and over again just to get hurt.
Losing friends hurts more than even a relationship ending.

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@autumnwinds

That’s how it has been for a while, but it does get lonely you know.

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@autumnwinds

Well, no one here is sitting crying in a corner like ‘ohh I’ve no friends I’m lonely’, but it won’t be nice to have a few friends to talk to, go out with for a change instead of doing things all by yourself.

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Addy @spartan_adictus

The advantage of having a friend in your 30’s is you know what kind of people you need. So that pool is already small. Watch their vibes and decide if you want to approach. Give some time. Coz it will take some effort for the trust to build. Love❤️

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When you find out, let me know? 😅 I am also on that boat lol

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