How do you pamper your bf over call?

Long Distance Relationship

he is not taking any move 😫 how long should I wait. Like cmon dude. We still talk but it’s super dry I know we both want this to work. But it’s really slow jeez

Relationships

I need help I’m stuck in a situation . 

Soooo … I been seeing this new guy ad I really like him .. but he don’t wanna relationship 
 Also I just broke up with my last bf a few weeks ago … but I miss him like crazy I love him but he hasn’t always treated me the greatest …. 
 And last there’s a guy in love with me but I don’t have the same feelings for him any more … also he’s married (all was in a 3 way relationship) 🤦🏻‍♀️
  I not sure What to do…. 1st guy amazing we get along so well and and are similar 
2nd guy I’m always gunna love him. He’s made me feel ways I never knew I would …. 
3 rd guy always been there for me and never switched up . Supported me alot …. Wht do I do 

Confusion

How do you get over someone who leaves you on read and takes you for granted and leaves you hanging stating they're going through some stuff

Well....I am confused about how i feel about my relationship with my boyfriend, its been 3 years  and i do not vibe with him or connect to him... he wouldn't listen to me of what i speak of my interest and he is one person with no interest at all... while we meet we just be on phone and talk to less and his job, lockdown and my post graduation have left us no time to talk to each other and i feel better and less restricted when i dont talk to him... he just in this realtionship because he is in love but i dont think that is enough... he has recently lost his dad and that makes things more difficult he does not talk at all or meet at all but he wants to be in relationship and i am quiet confused about what are we and what can i do for this... 


Whenever we talk my bf keeps bringing his ex up in the middle of our conversation. He randomly starts saying she used to love this and that stuff in relation to what we talk. 
It pisses me off. What do I do so that he stops bringing her up again and again?

Insecurity

IDK why i feel anxious about what happened last week, as if cheated, i feel guilty i feel like the need to tell him about what has happened but what i forget is that i did it for myself, to make myself feel better , it made me feel worse yaar. i feel like puking. i don't know ab i am accountable to him am i answerable to him? i don't think so i broke up because he did not have time for me. ,he did not see me for who i wanted him to he did not appreciate or feared on losing. me. i still want him to fear losing me and maybe this thing will help in it or maybe it will end the things for good. maybe , this is the push we need to end our stint . i still feel as if he wont take me , he wont take me back but dude who is he to take me back . it is i who should be the one who decides if. ishoud go back or not . the control should be in my hands , it is i who decides that does he deserve to be in my life or not . he should fear losing me bhai. its him ho led me to do this i was never ever this person who goes on to hook up with random guys and. moreover, while i was in it i had him in my mind . couldne take my mind off him . i still fear that if i ever tell him this he, never come back but shouldn't i be the one who makes. acall ? why should i givee him this liberty . ?

Exhausted

Told my boyfriend what hurts me and he does everything that hurts me but from my side I feel scared that I might do something that he doesn’t like and I m just scared to looose him even though he broke my heart many times and I still gave him many chances but I feel stupid now for doing lots of efforts and the worst part is that he hurts me . For few days after our fight on these topics he behave well with me but after some days I feel useless in his life . Please help me these things are draining me everyday . And I m hurting my self physically and mentally. And I have told these things to him. 

3am Thoughts

I broke up with my bf today. It still felt so surreal.
He was the one that decided to end this, and I don't know how I can change his mind. His last words to me were: "I don't want to be with you any more" and "you, as a person, is not who I want to spend all my time with".
It hurts so bad. I know I really want him back and I've tried to talk to him but he just kept repeating the words above. I just feel so stupid trying to get him back. I still have a lot of feelings for him... 


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