How do you know if u are/ aren't in love with a person anymore whom u used to love to bits. I'm not sure anymore and I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or be unfair to him. He keeps texting me when I ask him not to. He keeps trying. But I don't know anymore. I am not able to let go or be with him. I'm not able to move on. It feels like I'll never be in love again. Telling our parents about our relationship has strained it so much now i feel like I don't even want it anymore

Just tell him the truth. Trust me. I have been through this exact same situation and it did not go well for me argh worst decision of my life.

Stress

My boyfriend & I are planning to get married. His parents has no property whatsoever & is completely dependent on him. My boyfriend's income isn't that great and still he is planning to buy a house that will leave him with only a petty amount per month for household expense. Tho, I would be contributing running the house but I'm scared as A LOT of responsibility would come up on me. (Handling my expense, kid's expense and boyfriend's parents too up to a certain extent). I feel lost.

Marriage

Need  a suggestion from males ( want to understand the male mindset) ( specially the introvert mindset)

If you guys meet a girl on a dating site and tell her to be a casual friend ( then you guys talk on daily basis for 3-4 hours on text) Girl then asks the guy what he is into after 4 months  , is it friendship or more than that. Guy says he likes her and it is definitely more than friendship. Girl asks whats next , guy is confused and after a good amount of spending time for a year, he still has no stand of what he wants from that girl

What do you guys think what he is looking upto?

Asked him openely he always said long term but never named the things 
Friendship or situationship or a casual thing!?

3am Thoughts

Hi, I just joined here and I am kind of confused as to how I can explain what I am feeling. Let's just say this weird feeling in me started 3 years back. I was dating a guy who was my first boyfriend and he cheated on me with 3 different girls. I was naive enough to forgive him each time since I hadn't actually gotten physical with him. He was 2 years elder than me and hence when he cheated on me I justified his behavior by saying that maybe he needed something I couldn't give him. Every time this happened, he used to come back to me by saying that he loves me and he made a mistake. 

Today, I am dating one of my then best friends and I know this boy is the right one for me. But because of my relationship issues with my ex - I have insecurities and trust issues with my current boyfriend. Am too scared that I will mess things up. I am constantly crying or have a sinking feeling in my heart and I think it has started genuinely affecting my physical health too. I am anxious and have panic attacks from time to time. Can someone help me with this?

Cheating

I drove for 12 hours to pick up a custom made piñata for my boyfriend for his birthday (which he’s never had one growing up) and he says I don’t go above and beyond for him. I’m feel like he’s being greedy and ungrateful. Am I correct?

Anger Issues

Its about time . His haldi function is today,  engagement  is on Thursday and then Shadi.  Why am i still awaiting  a last-minute  turn around.  He is doing for his mom's happiness, who is embarrassed  enough  by her elder son's  inter faith wedding not working out well. So her younger  son is bound by it and she started risking  her health in all this.  I so much so want something to happen  that she is happy to accept me. He is not happy  either.  I accompanied him last few days for shopping  of his wedding  only to spend more time with him. I wanted to even see him today but couldn't.  It's getting  very tough now.  What would i do post his shadi

Love

Me and my boyfriend were making out, as I was on periods, I could not get invested in that and wasn't doing anything, he was very high , and he did not see that I am not interested anymore, he continued, as he finished, he was shocked to see me still and motionless and immediately apologised, he was very apologetic and kept on saying sorry for what he has done, he himself accepted that it was sort of forceful and non consensual even tough I had not said anything during the make out. Ii feel sad and disconnected from him, I love him but I am not feeling okay after this incident, what shall I do. He is a very good person, he is apologizing, trying to make me feel better and even giving me space to sit and think peacefully. he was the most amazing person i Knew, but after this, I am not feeling good. I don't want to lose the most beautiful experiences of love and life by losing this relationship, but I am scared, is this incident worth forgiving and forgetting, will I feel connected to him again, He is very sorry,he says he won't do it again ever , should I give it a chance or just leave him, please help

Relationships

Hey guys , so like, i had this dude whom had been my best friend for the last 4 years but 2 years ago, man got into a relationship and sidelined me , a lot and it hurt, once they broke up, i opened up to him and told him how i felt left out, a little too much. He promised me that he would never sideline me again and all kinds of bs as to how much he values our friendship, A year later he found another girl and honestly i liked her a lot as well (as a friend) and i was genuinely happy for him. Fastforward to this month's beginning, he was all set to get transsfered to another state on the 4th of may, and due to exams and shit ,we couldn't hang out properly till the 15th of this month. After exams were done , i called him so many times and asked him if he wanted to hang? But he kept giving excuses and i grew tired of calling him as well. Then when our friend group made a plan to meet up, he comes at the last moment and lies saying that he was studying for NDA, only to find out later that he was hanging out with his girlfriend.  The following days he made no attempts to hangout with me but went cycling 40 mins away to meet his girl daily (i live 5 mins away). This time i got mad and blocked him on social media, i kept our discord open just in case he wanted to sort stuff out( he is active on discord 24x7) yet he made no efforts to contact me, he is madly in love with this girl who is dating him to just pass her time. I don't regret my descion in disconnecting him out of my life but we have so many common friends , he is there in all of them and i kinda miss him. 
thank you for reading, i'd like to know if you were me, had you done anything different?

Friends

Hey guys, 
*Storytime* 
I was in a relationship for 1.5 years and then two months ago we broke up because he said he wanted to "find himself". 
I was shattered but it only took me 2 months to pick up myself and move. After I broke up with that guy, I started talking to a lot of guys just to distract myself. 
All of the talking was casual and nothing more, at all. 
Until I started talking to this guy and I fell for him. 
I was extremely happy and my friends were happy too that I had someone good in my life but I started to think "what if I moved on too soon?". I deeply loved my ex, today too he'll always a soft corner but I was ready to throw that in my past and leave it there. 
The new guy was AMAZING, can emphasise the amazing. He's a complete nerd, and I never though nerds would be my type but he sure is. He's the type of person who can make you feel as if everything will work out. I realllyyyyyy like him and obviously, I'd want to date him or take things to the next level but I can't. He's charming in ways I can't even describe. My friends said this "the honeymoon phase" but honestly I haven't looked at a guy more objectively than this. 
Unfortunately, we'll have to part ways soon because we'll be going to different countries soon and we don't want to do long distance.

Conclusion: Everything taught me that there are "good" guys who're there out somewhere, we just need to look for them and cautiously watch out for the toxic guys. 
And even though things won't have an ending that I want, I will be grateful for having someone like him in my life who taught me that with bad things, good things do come. 

Thank you for reading. 
Love y'all 💗💗💗💗

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