How do you know if u are/ aren't in love with a person anymore whom u used to love to bits. I'm not sure anymore and I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or be unfair to him. He keeps texting me when I ask him not to. He keeps trying. But I don't know anymore. I am not able to let go or be with him. I'm not able to move on. It feels like I'll never be in love again. Telling our parents about our relationship has strained it so much now i feel like I don't even want it anymore

Just tell him the truth. Trust me. I have been through this exact same situation and it did not go well for me argh worst decision of my life.

Stress

Hello everyone! I have a bit of a situation. I met this guy the other day on a dating app, and I normally do not get attached to men easily. However, I felt such a connection with this one. We talk and talked for hours. He told me he had a great time, and I did as well. The problem is we both told each other that we did not want a relationship before meeting in person. He texted me since seeing each other, but I left him on read because I feel like I am getting too attached and I do not know for sure how he feels. Honestly, I hope he texts me saying he wants to hang out again or something, but I also feel so confused. I hate feeling so attached so quickly. I just felt like our connection was so surreal like the kind in movies. 

Crush

There's this guy at college, I've turned down his proposal  more than 5 times and he's still trying and I'm not liking it. He's the one who came between me and the man I loved and created differences between both of us and now that we've broken up he's trying again and trying to guilt trip me like Ive been waiting for you since so long, my heartbeat falls to 40 because of the condition he's in. ( because I'm not accepting him) recently he's trying to be overly involved in my life, by asking about my family members individually that how are they doing,  I get it it's kind of him but when I don't ask about his family I don't initiate conversations with him I avoid him as much as I can turn down his calls and everything all of this is just suffocating me. Please I need advice. I'm probably just thinking too much about it 

3am Thoughts

i love my ex so much till the point im imagining myself falling in love with someone else making me sad 😭

Breakup

I am in a long distance relationship where he is always busy with his works as per him but whenever he gets free time he doesn't think of giving it to me i have to ask him for everything to do every effort even after that he doesn't take this things seriously always gives me excuses of his work which is very frustrating he always expects to understand  him but he never do the same he doesn't prioritise me he thinks if i m adjusting i will do it rest of my life i had clearly told him that if u won't give me time soon i will leave u  its not like i haven't understand him ever but from past 1 years it's getting very frustrating and disturbing me from inside feels like i m the only one in this relationship 
I feel he doesn't love me from his actions...i want to realise him my value 
What should i do 

Boyfriend

Is that Haram relationship worth it? The pain? The heartache? The connection you'll lose with you're rab? The amount of prayer you're going to miss and not reading the quraan as much. Is that person really worth risking you're aakhirah? Don't do it, wallahi it's not good for you. 

My love life is always drowning, I got rejected by a guy I had a crush on.....got rejected twice by him....and after that I couldn't dare to express my feelings to anyone I had a crush on......It's been more than 5 years and I finally installed dating apps and texted some guys. And I felt the connection with just one guy.....trust me it's hard me to like people or believe people can like me....but I really really liked this guy.....idk after how long I felt like this. After chatting for a week, he wasnt responding to me....so I texted him and asked him to be honest if doesn't like me (I was kinda expecting that he wouldn't like me).....but then he told me that he was just busy and asked me not to be mad! And he was always flirting, so was I.....and now all of a sudden he has been ignoring me for the past 2 weeks.....and I was sending him positive messages thinking he was just busy....but he didnt even read my snaps...still sends me the "streak snap"......I couldnt give up on him.......it felt like losing a good chance...I didnt want to assume anything...I just wished he could be honest with me......but maybe I was expecting for too much coz he had the time to add insta stories but couldn't read my texts.....and I felt like I was being toxic coz.....he didnt share his insta but it was easy for me find given he has a unique name.....and I was coming up with theories so that I could tell myself that he's actually busy and not texting someone else.....I couldnt help myself....it made me feel like shit....like I was being so obsessive and toxic.....so I sent him one last text where I honestly expressed my feelings....gave him my insta and phone number if he wants to reach back and removed him from my snapchat. I was devastated after that.....it felt like I shouldn't have done that but I needed to do it......but later that night...I felt a lot better.....but again today.....I am having mixed feelings. And i regret every decision from downloading dating app to removing him from snapchat. I don't know what to do......and it's killing me that I was being toxic. I shared this with my best friend and she called me toxic too......I don't know how to live with this.......Now I feel like I shouldn't love or like anyone else ever again. Just confessing here.....idk whom to share this with.

Anxiety

In Aug my ex told me not to contact him
And few days back he drunk dialed me.
Its been a long time we ve met. He asked me do u really feel a connection between us. I know i did feel a lot for him but i said nothing in front of him. I really want to talk to him the next day i texted him but he ignored my texts. Should i text him again or stay silent?

I feel overwhelmed. I feel sad because my personal needs are not being met. I feel fed up because I want try to communicate that to him but he doesn't want to communicate back. I feel like I'm not being heard. On top of this, I have so much uncertainty about my professional future. Any advice on how to overcome this feeling of overwhelm? 

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