How do you get over someone, once you truly loved ?

Yeah It has been years still can't get over.

You maybe lacking behind in self love. Ik how it feels but loving yourself isn't being selfish. So just start loving yourself☺️

It's never that easy tbh. Ik this bcz that's what I am going through rn. All that you can do is to make sure that you stay positive, start loving yourself, speak your heart out more often, keep yourself busy with your hobbies.

Love

I secretly want my ex to contact me.
Is this wrong? 

Breakup

There’s always this person that you never get over. 

I texted him again.
I'm so stupid.

Failure

I miss my ex. But i was the one who ended it. What should i do?

My ex made me hate myself in every possible way. My self-esteem became almost nonexistent. Crying daily and wishing I was somebody else. Someone better than him. Someone, he wouldn't have been able to manipulate and use. I was always there for him and did everything he asked for. All because I was blinded by love. I had such trust in him that I told him my deepest and most personal problems. However, that wasn't enough. I wasn't enough yet I tried everything trying to be. Changed myself, my way of talking, my friends, my behavior towards others, my likes and dislikes, trying to be miss perfect and he wouldn't leave me. He left me eventually and his persona changed completely. He isn't that sweet boy he once was. The boy who would ride his bike every possible day to visit me. His favorite thing to do was cuddling with me and telling me how much he liked me. Making me feel like the prettiest girl in the world. He is not the boy I fell in love with. He is now a fuckboy who states I was toxic and he was pressured into being with me. He is now happier making out with a different girl every night out and his mindset is how many girls he can fuck in one night. I guess that is something I need to understand.  Love is less valuable than sex and doesn't matter how much I tried to show him how much he meant to me. A thick girl good in bed will always beat me.

Today has been bad, how do you figure out if he still loves you? How do you break someones heart after 8 years and be ok with it, just like if it never happened... It makes me sick, and therapy does not give me the answers I need, nor does he... He just keeps posting stuff like he is the victim...

Having a long distance relationship is very hard. But my family constantly ask what im doing in the future where am i going to live, they ask so many questions and ik its just bc they r curious but I barely know whats going to happen we have only been dating for 7 months. But everyone expects me to have my life planned out but im only 19. I just wish the questions would stop so i can stop stressing so much bc my parents think im leaving them. 

Adulting

So I did a mistake broke up like 20 days ago with a guy college and recently proposed another guy from college cause I felt we will make a great pair and he's nice but he too had a break up recently and is still not over it I am worried what he thinks about me that I am desperate or what not will there be any chances of me coming with him in a relationship as he said no for now he will see what it is in coming future ! 

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