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Anonymous

How do you get away with talking to someone on a video call without getting caught by your parents… tips asap

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Shalin Gupta @shalin99

I don’t get it. What you’re trying to say here?

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Anonymous

I’m talking to someone and I don’t want my Maa to know about it I also have 0 privacy so… I wanna know how I can be sneaky with this

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

Use earphone and act like you’re casually using your phone that’s it

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Anonymous

Umm laptop h and she enters my room whenever she wants to and to delete things that quick I don’t know it just get me extremely anxious…

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

Can’t you minimise your vc screen?

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Anonymous

Ok so everything’s fine I can minimize it and everything the only problem is that I have mini heart attacks when shes in my room cause she never knocks and I absolutely suck at lying to an extend where you can see my hands shaking so this is really stressful at the same time I’m in a healthy relationship with him and I need to give him time

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

Then do a simple call. And when you’re completely alone then do a vc.

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Anonymous

Simple call… it’s a long distance relationship quite expensive 😅

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

Then do a WhatsApp call. Or Google duo

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Anonymous

Ok works but I still need to learn to lie around… and the most basic thing that I need to work on is to stop getting extremely panicked with her around you think you can help with that

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

Honestly you shouldn’t panic at all if you get panic then she gets more suspicious so try to be calm if she comes into your room without knocking. Act like you’re doing nothing exciting. You can also go to your terrace or somewhere for some amount of time where you can be alone

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Sheza Sajid @escapevelocit...

Hn baba but the thing is not in my control panic is full blown and she’s genuinely very toxic… so I start shaking breaking into sweats turning pale and my hands and feet get very cold just with her being around me…

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Sheza Sajid @escapevelocit...

And this happens when I hear her footsteps just anytime she’s near me

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

So if it’s a problem then I can’t help with that all i can tell you is to go somewhere private for some amount of time and if it’s not possible then you should learn how to use your laptop in a really fast way.
And maybe you should also confront your mother just say it that you get disturbed whenever she barge into your room just like that

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