How do you get a guy who you met online through your friend to stop texting you?
I'm not interested, but he seems really desperate to get a gf. I find him kind of weird and I want to stop talking to him but in a nice way that wouldn't come off rude.

I can't block him cuz he'll ask my friend why I blocked him and that would just be awkward.

Didn't think it was as easy as that.. thanks!

Ghost him. Don't reply for hours and when you finally do keep the replies short until you just kinda stop replying. Or lol u can do it the mature way and tell him. It might hurt him but it's kinda better than playing games.

Thiss! Or just stop responding for a day or two and if they text u again say ur busy 

There's this option called block. Try it.

Be honest, tell him that you don't like him and that you don't want to take his time anymore.. 

Exhausted

I broke up with my 5 year LDR boyfriend because of lack of understanding.
Deep down ik this was the right thing to do for both of us. We patched up again only a week ago and have had arguments 5 times since then. So It was better we part ways. But I'm feeling very guilty.
Did I even do the right thing?
What if my decision was wrong?
What if I regret?
What if I lose him forever?

Confusion

I hate it when i miss him... Why can't i get him out of my mind?? I can go all day telling myself i don't care about him. There are times when i genuinely don't care about him and im just having fun. But when the night arrives, i get so restless... Especially in the evenings. Its difficult, a part of me still wants to believe in him. I would be a idiot to still do that after he was cheating on me so long ...... I had just blocked him everywhere.... That part makes me doubt my decision... 
What if there was another path?
What if it could have been done another way??
What if i was wrong??
What if he genuinely loves me???
Why the fuck is he still trying to contact me some how???
This is so fucking hard... Anyone going through a heart break and trying to move on, honestly deserves a medal..   🏅

Breakup

Me and this guy finally cut things off between us. We had been talking off and on for a year, but these past few weeks I just found no happiness talking to him anymore, and it seemed like he didnt either. We spent maybe 2 weeks like this but today ended things. It is sad, we did so much together and opened eachother to new things, but the connection left. Its weird. But it was easy, were both fine. I just wanted to talk about it. And again, I had been feeling distant for like 2 weeks, but what really encouraged me to break up was because my old friend had text me today, and I thought he never had plans to talk to me again. So it opened my mind, and also gave me closure. If he could talk to me even though it seemed like it was impossible, I could stop talking to this guy even if it was hard. We often get stuck in routine. But anyways, it really stung when the guy said he didnt feel our spark anymore either.. Thanks for reading

Relationships

I have a guy friend, whom I love very much, he doesn't know it.
He recently got marrried.
I always used to say to him that I won't talk to you after you get married.
So the day he told me he is getting married, i stopped initiating talking with him and also stopped sending reels.
I didn't even congratulate him for his wedding.
But he didn't try to talk to me either,he just sends me a reel or 2 in few days.
I miss talking to him, sometimes I think of texting him and just start being friends like before,but I don't, because I still love him and if I keep talking to him, I will never move on.

I think one sided love is the worst thing in the world, isn't it? 

Friends

I really like my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 3 years now. I never told my parents about him because they are super strict and would definitely be pissed off at me for being in a relationship. Of course, I want to proceed with things on another level with him as in getting engaged and married. But, I don't see it happening. My mom has been finding guys whom I don't even know to get us married. I don't want to get married to some guy whom I do not know. They just do not understand me. I told them about my boyfriend recently. They were so mad, and they told me to forget him. My boyfriend has a stable job, a loving guy. I'm so heartbroken. My mum is forcing me to get myself married to some random guy. AAAAAAAAAAAA. I don't know what to do.  

Stress

this is my first time here
i am a girl, my mind is a mess lots of things goes in this and became the reason of my overthinking, anxiety and sleepless nights. for me right now my relationship became the biggest mess in my life all started 5 years ago met a guy started dating getting attached and in no time i fell in love, i didn't know about him but, i was maybe i am still but i scared to accept this because when i did he left me, cheated on me, broke my trust, i don't t know the whole truth there is so much history which i don't even know properly. we dated for more then a year i experienced so many happiness, joy, loved which i guess i never felt before but all that was like dream ended as a nightmare. we broke up 2 years ago and still i see myself standing right their struggling to get him out of mind out my life but can't. their is not even a single day i haven't remembered him it like i having a dream in which everything is same but what he did is unforgivable. he claims that he still love me few times we had a call he cried, begged, and what not but believing him is not possible for me. its really hard to listen to his suffering and acting like i don't care where from inside i know that i m gone through worst still his smiling picture makes me smile and his problem bothers me too but i can't say because he is that person now with whom i can't se myself but can't deny the fact that i loved him by all my heart, honesty, and soul. i didn't dated since no specific reasons though i also thought that may be i am not ready to let anyone else enter my life because before and after him i never had anyone this close to me to whom i can just lead my head and cry for no reason. from childhood all i felt is emptiness, loneliness and only that one year removed that feeling  but after that that emptiness, loneliness came back and this time with anxiety, denial, hate, no confidence from inside it all felt empty the more i try to be happy the more it cam with tears. still made a fake image of strong, independent, badass personality but in reality i m always struggling to find reasons to laugh. its like i don't know myself anymore my fake personality id taking over but his returns his text, calls, talks just make me realize that what if still everybody is playing with my feelings again. he is playing with me. i was never able to confess this to anyone because i was scared people see me as stupid teenager spoiling time in this shit but idk whenever i m stupid crazy or anything else but all i have is this nonstop feelings thoughts and dilemmas but when it comes to do something about it i fail. denial world is better i focus good on my studies i seem doing well in every aspect on my life but reality is just for me and now when typing this all i have is non stop teary eyes, scared , feeling weak and honesty i hate this feeling because all it gave me pain its been 2 years and still  no progress hopefully in coming time all this goes away i try and try.
people who are reading this thank you for your patience  and i apologize for my bad English its hard for me typing and expressing myself 
 and do tell me that all this is worth something or just a waste of time because, i don't know all i do is putting barriers on all this thoughts and this is my first time sharing hope you people understand.🙂

Hoii!! 
I’ve just joined here, I don’t really know how all of this works but am really happy to be able to share my problems with somebody I don’t know because they won’t judge me. 
Me and my boyfriend have been dating since 2 months, I am not serious about my relationship as him.  I truly love him from within, but I think it’s not practical to think that we will be happy with each other forever. I don’t want to hurt him but I also want to make it clear to him that I don’t want to think of future and ruin our present. I tried telling him indirectly but he doesn’t understand. He is a kind of person who is like, you date a girl and then you have to definitely marry her types. Am too young to even think of something like that, I have soo many things to accomplish in life. Is it okay to feel so? How do I make him understand? 


Boyfriend

When my relationship started I didn’t know that the guy i was dating was already in another relationship. But after I found out he chose me over her (they were together for 2yrs) I didn’t feel right. I still continued to be with him as I did have feelings for him.. with time he changed and loves me soo much. He does everything a girl could ask for. He’s super caring but a little less understanding but I don’t blame him cause he comes from a background of pple with conservative mentality. 
So my point here is that sometimes I’m not able to forget what he did to me in those first 4 months of our relationship. Things were hidden from me, he used to go see her almost everyday , they were in a physical relationship then as well, he texted him ILY and i only want you when I was there 😞 ... he gave me an explanation for his texts and said **she would’ve cut her wrist etc etc just coz of that i kept on dealing with her bullshit** idk what’s the truth and i never will ! He had her pictures in his phone even after they broke up and he “chose” me. I made him delete those, he didn’t delete them himself. Things got toxic in our first year together. Now it’s been 2 years with him and the though of the past still occurs and I can’t even talk to him cause he’ll say “tu kbhi nhi bhul skti kya ?! Mai kitna bhi kuchh karlu tere liye kitna hi pyaar krlu firbhi nhi bhul skti ?” 

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