How do you get a guy who you met online through your friend to stop texting you?
I'm not interested, but he seems really desperate to get a gf. I find him kind of weird and I want to stop talking to him but in a nice way that wouldn't come off rude.

I can't block him cuz he'll ask my friend why I blocked him and that would just be awkward.

Didn't think it was as easy as that.. thanks!

Ghost him. Don't reply for hours and when you finally do keep the replies short until you just kinda stop replying. Or lol u can do it the mature way and tell him. It might hurt him but it's kinda better than playing games.

Thiss! Or just stop responding for a day or two and if they text u again say ur busy 

There's this option called block. Try it.

Be honest, tell him that you don't like him and that you don't want to take his time anymore.. 

Exhausted

My boyfriend gave away our dog without letting me know. He bought her but I took care of her so I co owned the dog? He didn't take care of her, didn't take her to walks and I have seen him running to score weed and for football to which he responds I like doing it and that he didn't feel he could take her out everyday, one time I could have taken her out the other time him and his response to not telling me is that I would have talked him out of it. I fuckimg took care of her, more than him it was my dog sheis AN ANGEL so fuckimg calm I just feel out of place and I haven't stopped crying since yesterday I dunno what to do

I'm in a 4year old relationship. Everything was fine for first 1.5 year then things started changing between us. He's still loyal and faithful but his puts no effort in this relationship. He says he loves me but his actions are opposite. How doesn't have time for me and there goes weeks when we don't even chat. He never calls. Even texts are rare. I have never expected anything more than his time. I have always given my 100% but I don't know what to do now. He's a nice person but when it comes to relationship it's like I don't exist for him. What should I do?

Love

so a (almost) year back i met a guy online and we’re good friends and idk when it happened but im sure its unplanned and even if so we wanted to take things slow but eventually we started liking each other and we were kinda dating. Its been more than a year and idk if its safe and I’m in my late teenage.So the problem actually is
1) we like each other, like i do fs but not as much as i used to idk about him and we barely talk these days.
2) whenever like over calls or texts when i try to be more childish or kiddy he doesnt responds the way i wanted to like i mean he wants me to be more mature and the plot twist here is i feel im more mature than that guy.
3)hes so into hustling culture and we both are from same academic backgrounds so i know too how much to struggle, and obviously people IQs are diff , so are their ways. Like i meant to say theres no such need.
4) He barely takes out time for me if he ever did we just end up sexting.
And he always end up saying ‘if i just was busy for 2 days and couldnt be there for you or express my love, that doesnt mean my love for you had decreased or i stopped loving you’
should i consider all these as redflags?



Life

I wish he was in love with me. I am a little jealous though. He energy agrees to click any photos or videos with me but he did so with this another girl from college. I mean, I am so fucking tired of one sided love. That's what I have always had and it is not nice. I hate being delusional because I always end up getting hurt. Is he close to that girl? Does he like her? There has to be someone he is head over heels for me and I know it is not me because his texts are so dry. He is my best friend but I love him so much and I keep thinking that he is the one but let's be teal I thought about this for almost every man I had a crush on. I just can't living for the fact that he will someday choose me. I have to look out for myself. Because if he wanted to, he would've 

3am Thoughts

Ok so there are 6 main ppl in this thing, let’s name them , Seth, Adam, Seira, Elena. Jessica and Talia, we are all in the same friend group ( talia and I were best friends but we had problems and so we decide to just be on good terms, she is a very. I’ve person though). So 1 year ago me and Seth kinda had a talking stage and he asked me out, the next day which was also my bday, he broke up with me cuz he didn’t think this would work. All my friends were with him and called me to call Seth and check up on him cuz he was sad cuz he thought he “broke” my heart. But I was fine like actually cuz it wasn’t serious, but what hurt me was none of my friends really even asked me if I was okay, and Elena who I was closest to in the friend group (currently my best friend) didn’t check up on me, I guess a part of me was glad because no one brought this up much or took it seriously and that was good. So now me and Adam were kind of close like actual friends kinda close even before this but some shit happened when Jessica joined the group and like we lost touch. Seth moved to another school too, the friend group fell apart.
2 years before, Seth dated Seira but 3 months later Seira broke up with him cuz she didn’t feel happy in the relationship and was starting catch feelings for Adam cuz Seth was always busy to be with her. Ever since then I guess seth has this way of openly asking ppl like “hey would u date me or Adam?” Or like bring Adam down in front of girls. Like 1 week ago when we were just talking Seth publicly body shamed Adam. And I was just too shocked to even speak and I have never felt that guilty in my entire life, I regretted my actions SO fucking badly. Seth is just the type of person who makes ppl uncomfortable with like dirty jokes, like that’s all he thinks about. But he wasn’t in our school so I wasn’t that close to him. Me and Adam kinda-kinda grew apart over the year since the friend group broke up even though we were friends before. But for the past few days we have gotten closer again and like I can’t help but deny the tiny attraction I feel towards him, not just looks, like I can’t point out the exact reason why I feel this towards him. Adam has this close friend let’s name him Alan, so basically alan likes me and well I don’t really like him back. So I went and told my best friend Elena, and talia about my thing towards Adam, talia told me it was okay to feel these things and that she supports me, but also that like I kinda had a thing with  his like close friend Seth. When I told Elena she completely disagreed and these were her reasons, 1. I had a thing with seth (which really was not that serious), 2. Adam’s close friend Alan likes me, I just don’t understand the second one, she still keeps telling that this is just a bad decision. And I feel like they are right about the first reason. Me and Adam probably could be something, I mean I really don’t know if he even sees me like that, he is chill but also like introverted and I am very extroverted, complete opposites, ppl sometimes tease us both but I just feel like everyone just expects us to be in a “just friends” Stagec and do nothing more. I just realllly don’t know what to do.

Confusion

Umm so I am in a long distance relationship with my bf. And I don't want to be in any serious relationship now cuz I have seen and also getting hurt every day. The main problem is that I don't trust him. I don't want to get hurt anymore.
I want to be in just casual now. I love him but it's better if I will be selfish now. I m getting hurt being with him and will also get hurt without him. One of the guy was ready to do some casual stuff with me being in a relationship. But I didn't agree cuz I m in a relationship but now I feel like I should do it. I will breakup with him by listening few of your opinions on this. 

My bf is a nice guy tho but he just don't care about my existence in his life :) 

I'm in a dilemma... To choose between my parents who gave me everything so far... And the person who is already imagining a life with me.. Who trusted me after facing a lot of things in his life.. 

I don't want any of them to feel sad... 
I will do anything for my parents... But the moment I think about moving on.. I feel guilty for making the person I love sad... He had faced lot of things in his life so far... I promised him that I will never leave him..... 

Will my parents agree a person with other caste.... What to do... 

If I tell my parents and if they never agre then they will never treat me the same... 

If I don't then I will never forgive me... 

I'm in a state of confusion on what to do... Anyone please suggest me what to do

Idk how I actually feel.. it's like I have a bf but because of his family issues he isn't able to like pay attention. Like I understand okaay I understand his issues support him listens to him but it's just just him right? I need someone too. I was on my periods and I just wanted him to just for a sec even ask me if I was doing good and did I take any meds or just that he was proud of me that I am strong to deal with it. But instead he didn't do anything and when his problems were sort he continued to talk on call when I was having severe cramps and when I told him this at night he was like ki i didn't asked him if he had done breakfast which he didn't. It's likee i listened to him whole day and he didn't cared abt me but himself and then i was blamed that I didn't ask him for food. Likee wowwwww. I fucking don't know what to do now because it's like the second time he has done the same sucking thing.

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