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Anonymous

How do you find a man to get married??? I am very introverted so hv very less friends… and I could not find any1 in college or office, I am not very beautiful (insecured for my looks)…I feel the arranged marriage set up is mostly on looks…doesn’t matter the person’s personality… how do I find some1 compatible n get married…this is driving me mad!!!

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ethereal_being @ephemeral_...

I think you have to put yourself out there but before entering a relationship, work on yourself and your insecurities or else, it’ll harm both the relationship and you + your partner. Take care. 🤍

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Anonymous

I am too insecured…figuring on solving them!!!

ethereal_being @ephemeral_...

Yeah I read that :( What have you tried to do so far?

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Anonymous

Dunno

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Anonymous

Remain single. This is the best way to live a life and avail freedom.

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Anonymous

Thats a nice option…but when u see all your friends getting married n having kids you feel sad

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Anonymous

That was my personal opinion. I u wish you get what you want congratulations you’re the luckiest person on the planet.

ethereal_being @ephemeral_...

Do you live for you or for others? :) It’s not bc others have kids that they succeed in life, it means nothing and sometimes does not even mean happiness. People aren’t always what they seem. Focus on yourself:)

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Anonymous

Thank you

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Anonymous

Thanks …I know your words are true… but I feel pressure from friends society n family…this has made me insecure…is there something wrong with me

ethereal_being @ephemeral_...

Yes, dealing with pressure especially from loved ones is tough and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with feeling it. Do not worry. Take your time and if possible, maybe try to break free and stay away from people putting you down/pressuring you. Take care of yourself first.

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Anonymous

First thing you need to understand is that you are beautiful, opinions don’t matter, second thing I can say is to have faith that you will definitely find someone. Make other person need you not otherwise.🙂

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Anonymous

Thank you 🙂

ethereal_being @ephemeral_...

Being more comfortable alone is a great trait in my opinion.
To get more confidence, maybe you could try listing all the things you love about yourself (or at least do not hate). You’ll see how amazing you are. Then focus on those and when insecurity and anxiety creeps in, remember your beautiful traits!

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Anonymous

Thank you🙂 will try to b positive

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Sunny Seth @sunny04

Get introduced to each other. I probably can be of some help.

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Anonymous

Dude i am the same as you said above ,as it’s true arrange marriage is totally on looks ,and even i am introvert and ambivert at same time but I don’t have any friends at all …sad that arrange marriage are set up like that and it can’t be changed…

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