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Anonymous

How do you deal with the fact that you’ve failed miserably in something that you really love to pursue as career despite being the bright student since childhood & now you’ve to invest one more year for it unlike some of your peers? + Your parents doubt/scare about your decision ahead + Breakup from the toxic one in the meanwhile process.
And having these negative thoughts of how life is gonna be for me, would I have all the disappointments for life?

For me now it’s like the lowest point of till date & peak of my vulnerability!

It’s just too much to handle! I feel like I can’t take this anymore each moment, yet I pass months n months doing nothing!
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Thoughts? Suggestions?Advices?Words?
Please leave them!

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:D @pratio

I know someone who’s in similar situation like you

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Anonymous

Ooohh! Anything to say about? mate? 🙂

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Anonymous

I wish they find courage to get themselves together!♥️

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:D @pratio

See I think the people like you, strive for perfection and when something as worse as this happens it tears you apart. I assume you’ve always been a bright student and everyone around you expect you to always do the best. But this could be a big lesson for you and people around you. Failure my dear, is very crucial. I’d say go through this. Feel the pain. It won’t be easy for sure but it will teach you a lot in the wrong run.
Don’t waste the time by feeling defeated, fight it. So one day you could say everything didn’t come to you easy.

The person I know, he’s going through the same and he’s 3 years got wasted. But he still gets up everyday and works hard towards he’s dream.
Additionally, I’d say keep back up plans. It’s wise.

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Anonymous

Ahh! This whole text feels so right! 😭❤️ Thanks much for the response! I shall take a ss of it to comeback to it when needed! ♥️

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:D @pratio

Glad I could help☺️

Chris @boredaf123

I have been a repeater myself. I know how this feels. I would suggest you to act smart this time, notice what went wrong in your first attempt. Work on those mistakes. Since you were bright from get go, I would assume it would be difficult for you to ask for help when there’s something really difficult even for you to understand . If that’s the case then I would suggest you one thing : be curious like a child and blurt out your doubt to peers and mentors without any care. Don’t focus on being perfectionist , rather try improving things everyday. Keep it simple

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Anonymous

Thanksss much for the response mate!♥️ This means a lot. Will work on it for sure.

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