How do you deal with the fact that youāve failed miserably in something that you really love to pursue as career despite being the bright student since childhood & now youāve to invest one more year for it unlike some of your peers? + Your parents doubt/scare about your decision ahead + Breakup from the toxic one in the meanwhile process.
And having these negative thoughts of how life is gonna be for me, would I have all the disappointments for life?
For me now itās like the lowest point of till date & peak of my vulnerability!
Itās just too much to handle! I feel like I canāt take this anymore each moment, yet I pass months n months doing nothing!
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Thoughts? Suggestions?Advices?Words?
Please leave them!
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I know someone whoās in similar situation like you
Ooohh! Anything to say about? mate? š
I wish they find courage to get themselves together!ā„ļø
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See I think the people like you, strive for perfection and when something as worse as this happens it tears you apart. I assume youāve always been a bright student and everyone around you expect you to always do the best. But this could be a big lesson for you and people around you. Failure my dear, is very crucial. Iād say go through this. Feel the pain. It wonāt be easy for sure but it will teach you a lot in the wrong run.
Donāt waste the time by feeling defeated, fight it. So one day you could say everything didnāt come to you easy.
The person I know, heās going through the same and heās 3 years got wasted. But he still gets up everyday and works hard towards heās dream.
Additionally, Iād say keep back up plans. Itās wise.
Ahh! This whole text feels so right! šā¤ļø Thanks much for the response! I shall take a ss of it to comeback to it when needed! ā„ļø
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Glad I could helpāŗļø
Chris @boredaf123
I have been a repeater myself. I know how this feels. I would suggest you to act smart this time, notice what went wrong in your first attempt. Work on those mistakes. Since you were bright from get go, I would assume it would be difficult for you to ask for help when thereās something really difficult even for you to understand . If thatās the case then I would suggest you one thing : be curious like a child and blurt out your doubt to peers and mentors without any care. Donāt focus on being perfectionist , rather try improving things everyday. Keep it simple
Thanksss much for the response mate!ā„ļø This means a lot. Will work on it for sure.
