How do we know what we think about ourselves or situation related to us or when take decision is right for us...?

Taking some time off and think about it. Or discuss the same with ur close friend . Sometimes there are no right or wrong answer. We do what we know is best at that time. What are you referring at?

3am Thoughts

today was so much better than yesterday and talking to guys makes my heart smile thank you so much. also i completed a book that i had been reading for some time now. its November 9 by colleen hoover. how have you guys been doing! 

Friends

I'm always feeling bored and not able to do any activity and I'm feeling so guilty about it 

Mental Health

I went through a rough patch.. Nobody was there apart from my family I'm healing..so I started calling up friends, ping them, ask for their well being and it works in healing, but it's like one way I call or I message first and there's only revert.. I tried not texting them for straight a week and nobody showed up, so I blocked all of them on whatsApp and Instagram and it's now third day still not even a call.. Nobody bat an eye , I'm feeling lonely now, what shall I do? 

Lonely

I wonder how does it felt to finally ticking off the things you've been writing from years on your small little diary, kept in your pocket. How does it feel to finally live that moment, you've been living in inches through your phone screens or books.
I remember  the words i read somewhere, "The moment you got the things you've been chasing, you start chasing something else." and i swear it hits me harder and it's kind of brutally true.
Does it still hold the special place in your heart, after getting it. Does it feel make butterflies in your stomach, after you got it? 
I'll leave it with a question mark so that you just take a pause from your busy life and rethink.
Don't undo the importance of the struggle you've made while chasing it.


Happy

Whenever i’m going through a hard time I always find comfort in the word “we”, you always say things like “don’t worry about it WE’ll find a solution, WE will make it through this..” even if the situation doesn’t affect you directly as in personally. I find that much better than saying “YOU’ll find a solution, YOU will be okay, YOU’ll make it through this’  when you change that for a “we” it makes me feel like i’m not alone in this. You don’t have to be here for me but the way you speak to me reassures me that you want to be involved, that you’re willing to help me carry my burdens and that we’re in this together. You don’t have to do this but you never fail to let me know you’re by my side, thank you for that.

**Sexual Assault**
2020: I was assaulted in the metro. He touched me at my breasts and hips. I still feel his breath on my face and his hands on me. I couldn't sleep that night.
2015: I was assaulted by my boyfriend who was 5 years elder than me. I was just 18 at that time. I kept saying no but he didn't stop. Thank god to my friend who intervened and saved me. Breaking up with him was very difficult for me. But I did it. He stills messages me on my bday every year and it's always scary. 
2014: I was assaulted on a road while I was on my 2 wheeler. Another bike came nearby and the rider touched my breast. 
These incidents still give me shivers but I know they were the major incidents but there must have been so many times when we all must have been assaulted in some or the other way but didn't recognize it. I have never spoken about this earlier. I know I am not the only one. I just wanted to speak up.
I ask others also to speak up...


Harassment

Which is better??? What do you think?

Now&Me Thinks

I think im starting to hate friend, idk she is so annoying sometimes.
Always look down on me and making fun of me.
Idk whats wrong with her. And i dont care 
She is always like she has everything and try to make me feel im dumb, i have no knowledge, she is pretty and i dont deserve anythg  etccc.
Its like soo disturbing.

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