How do I tell a guy that I am not ready for marriage without hurting his and my parentsā feelings?
The guyās such a Mummaās Boy. He wonāt even talk to me alone. And my parents are not that supportive. What do I do? Kill Myself?
TeeJay @dran89
My sympathies to you. I think a little bit of hurt your parents can manage, rather than they see you suffering for years, later on.
And also, you need to talk to him about your decision, like grown adults. You need to stand up for your well being.
And please, no need to kill yourself.
Yeah, I guess youāre right. But My mother would kill herself if I tried to speak anything against her decisiom. But, Iāll give it a try,
Not worth killing yourself
Usko boldo ki bhaag jaungi shaadi krne ke baad š
WO Baaat kare tab naā¦Heās such a Mummaās Boy!
screamferocious... @happyme16
You donāt have to kill yourself for this. Good communication will work just fine.
Tell the guy that you are no ready for marriage and that you need some time.
Or if he doesnāt understand tell your parents or his parents. You donāt have to be embarrassed about it.
You have to tell them because marriage is a huge decision for your life. Marriage cannot happen unless both you and he agree to it.
I wish I could the same to him. Heās not ready to Talk. Heās such a Mummas Boy.
screamferocious... @happyme16
Then you must trick him into speaking with you. Think of something.
Or then you have to tell his parents or your parents. You must do something.
My friend told me this crazy ideaā¦He told me to stammer the next time they call and tell them that I am an Atheist.
screamferocious... @happyme16
There is no need to lie. You are marrying that guy. You have to tell him somehow. Tell him that you want to speak to him and that itās important and urgent. You have to tell him something to make him speak to you.
If you want something, you have to be brave and strong.
Sanket @sanket
The sooner you tell it, the less you will hurt them. Also keep it very straightforward
