How do I keep myself engaged while I miss my bf who is super-busy?

Yes, I’ve told him this. But he has not very much time to meet me in a month. :(

I’m the one who’s always wanting to meet. But when we meet, it’s like we both have mutual feelings, ending up with cuddles and kisses. 


Ik he loves me and I love him too! But I’m a bit clingy and wanting attention, but he’s being mature and not showing too much attachment 😪

How do I manage this?

Boyfriend

I haven't spoke to a frnd since few days , few mins back was thinking abt him 😂n now When I checked phone.. he pinged me.
I like such coincidence

Friends

Okay so I’m new here and speaking of my past long term relationships they have been traumatic, both the guys cheated on me. Post which i have major abandonment issues, i get stressed and irritated easily. Im in a relationship right now and the guy im with is super sweet and understanding but at times i feel like i put too much burden on him with my trust issues (ps its not like he has been perfect he too had lied various times and deleted chats behind my back. But being in that constant state of not knowing whats going on or if it will happen again) going through all these emotions of my past kills me inside so i choose to push people away. My current bf tells me he hasn’t cheated on me and never will but his actions have made me question the whole relationship. I love him but i dont know why i feel like i have all these insecurities and abandonment issues from the past. What do i do with this constant stress and irritated outbursts + anxiety? :(

Stress

Hello
So I texted this guy a few times on instagram but he left me on liked twice. I feel like he doesn't really want to text me but I really want to text him!! I'm thinking of maybe sending him a post with a frog bc he really likes them but I'm not sure. I don't like him I just want to have new friends :( I have social anxiety and I'm trying to challenge myself by texting people but I always end up left on seen and I get really sad. I want to go out of my comfort zone but the feelings I feel afterwards are going to kill me. Anyways, I'm sure he's going to leave me on liked again... should I text him?

Social Anxiety

What does it means when a guy friends says " I like you" and sends red hearts
I know its very common in this gen z age 
But I've kindly friend zoned him for now
its not that I don't like him
I just got out of toxic relationship and now I don't trust anyone because i know they all approach me just because of their benefit

Whn i was in in 6th grade i met a him.  He's so friendly and always stay by my side.. Bcs of scl activities we always had to meet. But he's 1y younger than me. He always support me in every thing. And i started to like him. But i didn't told him. Bcs i don't wanna end our friendship.. But after 3y he proposed me.. He told me he had feelings for mee too.. I was so happy and couldn't even believe what just happened.. After that he was too caring and sweet. But just fr 5 day's after that he refused to talk to me. He said he was busy. So i gave him time but seventh day he told me he wanted to break up with me. He said it was a family problem. So i just believed it. And he told me he's not gonna date anymore.. But now i saw him with other girls.  It hurts me so much.. Now he didn't even look at me. 💔

Lonely

I guess I just need to talk this out with someone, because I'm feeling pretty hurt and confused, when I really shouldn't be. It's a long one!

About ten years ago I met someone who I absolutely fell in love with them and the idea of them, but they were taken with children, so it's nothing I ever pursued. There was clearly sexual tension and we flirted all the time, knowing it would never lead to anything. One night, two years into all this flirting, after work he got right up into my personal space and whispered something sexual about what he imagined doing to me. 

I took a step back, as was quite shocked by it, silly really with all the flirting we'd been doing, but I also had it in my mind it would always just be that. We were interrupted and neither of us knew what would have happened next...but I always thought about it and what I should, could, would have done with more time.

After that he became more intense and I backed off, I didn't want to be a side piece and I knew this was the kind of guy that I would fall hard for and he would never leave his family, so what was the point in starting that, and potentially hurting lots of people? 

Eventually I left the place of work, moved on with someone else, who by pure coincidence turned out to be a friend of his, which I didn't find out till later on at a friends gathering. Ever since we've barely communicated, for good reason, but do find ourselves within the same friendship circles.

Anyway, the reason why all this has come back to the surface, is that we bumped into each other recently and for the first time in about seven years was able to talk alone. There's been some news recently about women coming forward from our old work place about how they felt like they were sexually harrassed, which we got to talking about how awful that is for those women, to go through that. So I made a point of saying that, just for the record, any moments we had together were private memories and ones I enjoyed and that he has nothing to worry about, in case he did have concerns about us.

He responded by telling me that "It meant nothing to me then and it mean's nothing to me now." 

...and now here I am, feeling really hurt, and I literally don't understand why, other than pure pride and the fact I liked him a lot more and assumed it was mutual but that we were just holding our feelings for each other back. I left the conversation pretty swiftly after that as I was so surprised about how much it effected me, and didn't want to show that, if I meant so little to him.

It's been a few day's now and I guess I'm just wondering whether I need to contact him again and just tell him my feelings on it, or whether to just leave it be. But it's occupying my mind every day, and I can't understand it. 😅😖

One Sided Love

How to get over someone who was never officially yours?

Some days are just so hard. 
I miss him a lot. 
I just miss him that it becomes so hard for me to even hear his voice.
I don’t know how some people just decide things on their own and just move on without even saying anything, without even discussing.
He wanted to leave the relationship just as it is without even saying a word, i could sense that he was drifting away and everytime i tried to confront, he would just freak out, and then months later he would just reply YES, we cant be together. 
I mean, he confessed then, i could have left you like that , which mostly guys do, but i decided to not do that, and in this he is too proud of himself.
He couldn’t even stand any lovable words !
It just kills me that i am kind of 
friendzoned !
First time, i actually invested in a person and not in things.
Ugh, i hate the days when i just want to hug him. 
Hope to get move on. 😕

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