How do I express to my boyfriend that the romance in our relationship is zero? I feel he takes me a little bit for granted. He is caring. He reaches out to me. But thereβs no special gesture on his end. We met after a month last weekend. I was a little upset coz he came late and spoilt half of our plan. He had his reasons and thatβs ok. But not understanding that he needs to make it up to me and not even holding my hand once or even looking into my eyes to say that heβs sorry. It saddens me that there is hardly any physical affection that he gives me. I am usually the one who holds his hands, brushes my hands through his hair but this time I didnβt coz I was upset. We met after a month and he still didnβt hold my hand once. It bothers me so much. I donβt feel like even giving him a flying kiss over video call.
Aww, communicate with him. Guys usually are either too shy or too boldβ¦ if heβs too shy he might be scared to get physical, he must be thinking u wonβt be comfortable or so just talk it out if heβs caring n so
Weβre together since 2.5 years. Iβm sure heβs not shy. Iβm scared he might not want to change if I talk to him. Or my problems might be shown small and his bigger. Idk what Iβm doing. Idk what he wants. This is terrible.
You canβt be just scared and not talk about it just to keep the relationship alive, may be there is logical reason from his perspective. Express your concerns calmly & see what he is up to.