How do I decide the right partner? Is there any thing like the right partner or is it all just nothing? 

someone who compliment( not tareef but in your habits) you as an individual and also bring the prace in your life.

Anxiety

I am just tired of not being someone's favourite person. Like everyone has a person they tell everything to and lave with them with their whole heart. I want to be the person someone goes to first with their problems but it is like everyone who meets me finds me lacking in some way and decides I am not enough. Either I am too studious or too quiet or too loud or too fat. I am always not upto their standards. Why? Will I ever be enough? Will someone love me like i want them to. Btw it is not only about romantic relationships but friendships too. I just want a person who I feel comfortable with to share everything and who feels comfortable with me to tell me anything. I just want unconditional love that I couldn't receive from anyone.

3am Thoughts

Why is it that I don’t feel like giving up on her? After the way she has ghosted me, ignored me? Like whyyy? She texted me back a few days ago, then again. Duhhhh. 

(PS - We never dated but she knows that I have feelings for her)

Crush

Anyone, to chat?

Awful. I'm married for 2 years now with a 1 y/o kid. Maybe my wife doesn't realise this but she keeps making me feel insufficient, not good enough. I'm literally not allowed to talk to anyone about this, not even sharing anything on my socmed. If I did, she'll get upset and as a caring husband, I won't feel at peace if I don't console her. But nowadays, everything feels like it's about her. I catered to her every needs and wants, I haven't even buy myself a new shirt for months now because I spent most of my income on her. I guess this site is gonna be my personal diary 

Marriage

Wo kahte hai na
Dar lgta h unn logo se
Jinke dil me bhi dimag rhta hai.....😐


Growing Up

Stess



Mental Health

हम ने अक्सर तुम्हारी राहों में, रुक कर अपना ही इंतिज़ार किया।

Not sure if this is emotional abuse, but I think it is.

I'm writing here to try and get some new perspectives on a problem my girlfriend is encountering. We are a happy couple in our mid twenties, pretty social people, we get along with everyone, and we have a lot of friends. Some of her friends, however, have a tendency to forget about my girlfriend in situations where she should obviously be included.

The concrete example at hand is a facebook group that she and 8 other girls are part of. It is a book-club sort of thing, and my girlfriend has attended a couple of them, and also held a meeting at our appartment (we made amazing food). One of the girls (A) just posted an invitation (in form of a post in the group) to a new event, more like a party this time. And in the comments beneath A tries to trigger a response by tagging the names of all the girls that hadn't responded except for my GFs. 

- My GF is not super close with this group as a friend, but enjoy being invited to things and feeling like a part of something.
- Two of her very closest friends from childhood are in this group, and they were tagged in this comment.
- It is not the first time my GF's been left out by this group of people. They arranged a trip to a cabin where there simply wasn't enough room; it hurts being the one left behind.


? how do I help in this situation? I get so pissed off on her behalf, because my GF is the most caring and kind and interesting person I know (she has a tendency to put other people before her in conversations, being very active in listening, and thus not coming very forward with her personality.) And I think some of these girls appear to have very shallow values, or I don't know, but some of them have this coolness that screams high-school hierarchy, if you know what I mean. My GF is so much more grown up than that, so why does she have to deal with this?

? Why the hell isn't her close friends stepping up? At least one them (B) is actually really lovely, and I think it's a matter of "not making a big deal out of things, I'm sure they just forgot", but I think it's messing with my GF, and I really want to call B and shake her. 

Suggestions?

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