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Anonymous

How do I deal with an emotionally unavailable person?

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Chris @boredaf123

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Who is that person to you exactly if i may ask?

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Anonymous
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He is my ex, he was that way when we were dating and he is the same now too.

Chris @boredaf123

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If he is your ex why bother

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Anonymous
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I have not moved on yet and few things happened because of which we are still in contact. The way he reacts to situations just amazes me and I keep wondering how can a person be this way.

Chris @boredaf123

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Cut him off for good. Why waste your energy on a person that is your ex. Im gonna be honest with you girl, ppl here have issues coz they cant move on with their ex and they ruin their own lives for the sake of getting back with their ex.

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Anonymous
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Yeah you are right :/

Chris @boredaf123

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You seem to have something to say but you cant i guess. Anyway i leave it upto you for that

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Anonymous
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I really am trying to move on okay but I just can’t do it. I feel bad for myself cause h has shown me in every way that he is a selfish and shallow person but I still can’t move on from him. He just keeps using the β€œI am not emotionally available, I don’t know how to express myself” dialogue for all his actions.

Chris @boredaf123

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Well girl. Heres the thing : he is emotionally unavailable to you and thats a fact. You will have hard time moving on but thats the right thing to do now. You wont be happy and it will be painful but thats gonna be beneficial to you in the long term. So trust in the fact that youre doing the right thing and keep doing it : which is to move on

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Anonymous
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Yeah, this moving on part takes so much time. I just hate this part alot. ://
And thank you so much for your advice.

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