How do I ask my bf if he’s only using me for sex? I don’t want to seem like I’m accusing him of anything but it’s starting to feel this way and I want to talk about it. So how do I let him know this indirectly?
Happened with me too…
I just asked him not to indulge in sex for a month cz i need a break n focus on my goals…ending was bad for me…but i realised that he was not the one.
Maybe this idea cn help u too…maybe he vll agree and later use u again…so try to stop him…see his behaviour…n if u want u cn extend the time…but not less then one month.
Okay I’ll try this
First of all, feel what you’re feeling what I mean is if you’re feeling this certain way don’t invalidate it. Most of the time our intuition is right and Second, ask yourself what made me feel this certain way and share the same with your bf. His reactions will tell you a lot!
Sanket @sanket
Keeping it direct would be a good choice though.
Instead of using a blaming tone, put it out like this is how you feel…
