How can I stop my younger brother who is in 1st year of college from  indulging in drug and alcohol addiction .How can I save him from some guys who take him away for alcohol nd drugs 😞

My comment below is not a reflection on your younger brother or you.

But what I wanted to know was how are other aspects of his life from your point of view?

Drug Abuse

I love a guy and he loves me (at least I hope so) I tried a lot to marry him but he didn’t put enough efforts towards the same. Now my parents got me a match and I m really not interested to talk to him at least. This made my parents very angry and my father got sick .
I don’t want to loose my parents I m their single child at the same time I m unable to move on and forget him. I wish I knew caste wud be a prblm in my house before I fell in love . This is causing me lot of pain. Surprisingly he is coping up with it better than me . That is making me very sad . I fought for him for 2 yrs at my home and after all that I still feel this . He didn’t even try and he looks fine . Idk but that is making my heart break . But I know no one loves me like he did . I really don’t know what to do . Shud I choose my parents or shud I choose him ? 

3am Thoughts

why it happens that if you have a good heart, every bad thing happens to you!

Does anyone else feel like everyone is becoming distant and when you try to change that it's like you're the only one trying and they don't even care. 

Hello,

I tried online dating and it made me realise  a lot of things as well as it made me ask some questions. 

The first thing I realised is that these app/websites are terrible in small countries and it’s even worse if you life in a small village. The website that I tried first, it was poorly made and even tho I thought on this site are people with interest similar to mine I found nearly no similarities. This was a site for gamers,geeks and everything else that falls in that category. Most girls were totally into anime and cosplay while many may think nice that’s what I was looking for, it wasn’t for me. I was really disappointed since I thought this was the site for me to find at least someone to game with but I only met either totally shy girls who didn’t even wanna talk and even had trouble to share small things you had to pull everything out of their noses or they wanted to assemble a lot of guys to worship them (I’m not kidding they bought her stuff just so she talks and plays with them).

After the website I tired some those tinder like apps I download the three most popular ones and after some testing I stuck with one. It stared of very interesting I met a 35 year old woman and we chatted for two days after that she came to the conclusion that she was on various apps for the past 5 years without luck and the men she met were either only interested in sex or in my case to young and so she quit all the dating apps and sites. This was a real confidence boost for me I had a real conversation were both parties stayed interested which was a big problem for me in the past. But my luck didn’t last I had a few more matches but the conversation were boring and in some case didn’t even get past “how are you”.

Now that I did all of this I can make a few conclusions. It doesn’t really matter how hard you try you can’t force a conversation. People can be more picky on the Internet and break of conversation really fast. As a man you have to the bar really low (probably because there are more men on this apps).My confidence also fell as the distances grew and when I stopped recognising the names of the towns I knew it was over. 

I also have a few questions I just can’t answer myself. Why is everybody so overly attractive? I’m not complaining but I have no chance with these people. I’m not very tall (177 cm, 5”10) which seems to be on of the biggest problems.

But I also got a few things out of this mainly confidence, I couldn’t even write someone in the beginning but now it’s relatively easy even tho I still don’t have a good opening line so I have to work on that. 


Thanks for reading and please share your experience with online dating or dating in general.


Relationships

I cannot be idle without either slipping into depression or getting drunk/high. I use whatever I can to alter my perception of reality. I have had nothing traumatic happen to me. I am not physically addicted to anything. I have an intense need for attention. I am very good with people when I imbibe the right amount of alcohol. But the right amount of alcohol often leads to the wrong amount and I fuck up somehow. My job means I am alone almost all the time. I have a family (wife 3 kids 2 of which are at home and young) I need to talk right now. I don't know what about but I need to be distracted for a while

Lonely

Don't Judge My Past I don't live there anymore 🤟😎

Breakup

It takes a big heart to love someone who doesn't love you back and still be friends with them and watch them getting along together with third person. 

Love

I feel stressed lately.
Dont get me wrong I am enjoying my days as they pass. Currently I am waiting for my college admissions to start. I have personally contacted them and they have assured me that I am eligible for it. But I have been hearing this for the past 4 months. Due to the pandemic admissions are taking time. The thing is everyone around me are busy with their online classes and all. And i am here just passing my time. I really bothers me. 

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