How can i let go of someone who has been so close to me?. She has discarded me completely, I feel so awful everyday. I’m not able to overcome this… Please help
I get you. My bff of a decade just left me a year ago, now she’s incredibly nasty (and all this happened after I told her my biggest secret that I was ashamed of but in truth aspergers is nothing to be ashamed of, anyway). I cope by hatred. It’s not healthy, I know, but it’s how I start. I write music about how I feel and my experiences. I have other friends and remind myself that people come into your life for a reason, season or a lifetime. Clearly this was just a season. You’ll be OK. You’ll survive, there is a whole world waiting for you if you want it. It’ll be alright :D
Hi
Thanks for opening up
My heart goes out to you
But u know what u are so precious
U deserve so much love,affection n warmth in ur life.
Breaking of relations that too the ones close to heart pains a lot…
To overcome -
A lot of time n patience would be required.
Strong will power will be required…
U will need to accept it is over.
U will have to stop expecting or keeping hopes
That way u will be stuck up n never be able to move ahead.
You will have to forgive her.
No holding grudges…
Till u will hold grudges u will be stuck up…
U will keep dissecting it…
See unfortunately some relations arenot meant to be
It is neither ur fault
Nor her fault…
Fault of situation
Stay away from all the triggers that remind u of her
Start a new life
Focus on self,on career
Keep mind occupied
Stay busy…
God bless u
Good luck
Take care of urself.
