Isha @issa
How can I get back on track?
I recently analyzed my posts and came to a conclusion that I am actually talking sh**, messing around as if I am a careless person.
Story time-
So till 10th std I was a nerdy kid and so I actually got really good marks (96%), hence I was admitted in a good college, but as soon as I entered the “”“college life”“”, I realized all the students in my college are really cool (ukwim)
and that was the day I decided to change myself, I started dressing in a way which would be liked by everyone (kind of), cared less about my grades…bcoz I was made to believe that popular kids don’t study.
I tried to be someone which I’m not but this eventually made me a person which I don’t intend to be.
The college I’m studying is like really popular so it just makes me feel inferior.
I want to get back on track, I don’t wanna be a people pleaser, I need that academic validation…ughhhhh
Be honest about your opinion don’t sugarcoat it
Love ❤️ @subhamsagar08
I solve your problem
ptani bi nai h bs solution diya hai
kyuki y problem mere sth bi aachuki hai
bta diya dusra comment dekhne ki fursaat mili ho to dekh lo
Isha @issa
what is it??
Love ❤️ @subhamsagar08
i write you in another comment
Isha @issa
yea checked just now
Viraat Pandey @rick98
Get cornered …for sometime. Set you priorities.
Take a break from everything… and just be that old girl😇… go for your dreams
Isha @issa
yep but I’m kinda anxious about it too
Sikkim?
Isha @issa
nah
Love ❤️ @subhamsagar08
un logo ko ignore kro jinse tumhe asar pdta h or jinki vjy se tum change hue ho agr unhe tumhari care hogi to tumhare pas aynge although jb ap unhe ignore kroge to apko sochne ka or khud pe dhyan lgane ka tym milega to ab apna goal set kr skte ho or us doraan apko y bi pta chal jayga ki apke sath kon kon hai kyuki ap sbko ignore krogay to jise chinta hogi vo khud bi apki help ke liye ajyga …
Isha @issa
baat aesi he ki mre clg ke almost sare log vese he so apne aap inferiority complex ata he
Just Remember No one is above you nor Below you … just concentrate on what u love
Isha @issa
🙌🙌I’ll try
Well you can be both. Just gotta have to be disciplined a little. I have seen cool people and they study too(perks of being in an IIT lol, not bragging anything). But just enjoy your studies with passion, follow a strict routine(the difficult part). Be regular with your studies and you can do anything in your free time.
Isha @issa
that’s great that you’re an IITIAN !! actually I’m really bad at multitasking so only one of the two tasks is possible
Dude see if you have your goals sorted out. If you have long term plan then break it into short term and daily tasks. And believe me You don’t have to put more than 12 hours into studying(including classes) doesn’t matter whatever level of education you’re pursuing. Reduce 6-7 hours of sleep, you’ll be left with 5-6 hours. If you plan your day really well and following your daily tasks. You can fkin do whatever you want rest of the time. Everything is about your priorities and how passionate you’re about them. Dress up nice and look dang for your own self not to be a people pleaser. Just be cool with whoever you are.
Aur ek tum mumbaikars 11-12th ko college bolna band karo yaar. 😂😂😂
Isha @issa
Thanks for your advice and you being someone whom I’m aspiring to be (IITIAN) . It really gives me a hope to keep trying…ik I just have 4 5 months but I’ll try my best
4-5 Months is a long time. Isolate yourself for a while. You can rock in this much time. Mains is just qualifying, focus on advanced. You’ve a 1 fkin year dude. One of my close friend got an under 200 rank in 1 year. He was not that focused in class 11th. You can definitely do it, just be disciplined and keep your studies your utmost priority.
Isha @issa
yes for sure I’ll crack it🙌
Isha @issa
arey yaar humare yaha aesa.hi bolte he🥲🥲
Don’t seek validation if want to get it. It’s just that simple. And don’t be in your mind. Work for a greater meaning rather than validation. You will see in the long run you would have achieved enough and it won’t matter to you whether you get those so called validations or not. Just focus on work. That’s it. Nothing else.
Isha @issa
thanks there… I’ll slowly but surely overcome this habit of getting used to validation
