Isha @issa
How can I get back on track?
I recently analyzed my posts and came to a conclusion that I am actually talking sh**, messing around as if I am a careless person.
Story time-
So till 10th std I was a nerdy kid and so I actually got really good marks (96%), hence I was admitted in a good college, but as soon as I entered the βββcollege lifeβββ, I realized all the students in my college are really cool (ukwim)
and that was the day I decided to change myself, I started dressing in a way which would be liked by everyone (kind of), cared less about my gradesβ¦bcoz I was made to believe that popular kids donβt study.
I tried to be someone which Iβm not but this eventually made me a person which I donβt intend to be.
The college Iβm studying is like really popular so it just makes me feel inferior.
I want to get back on track, I donβt wanna be a people pleaser, I need that academic validationβ¦ughhhhh
Be honest about your opinion donβt sugarcoat it
Love β€οΈ @subhamsagar08
I solve your problem
ptani bi nai h bs solution diya hai
kyuki y problem mere sth bi aachuki hai
bta diya dusra comment dekhne ki fursaat mili ho to dekh lo
Isha @issa
what is it??
Love β€οΈ @subhamsagar08
i write you in another comment
Isha @issa
yea checked just now
Viraat Pandey @rick98
Get cornered β¦for sometime. Set you priorities.
Take a break from everythingβ¦ and just be that old girlπβ¦ go for your dreams
Isha @issa
yep but Iβm kinda anxious about it too
Love β€οΈ @subhamsagar08
un logo ko ignore kro jinse tumhe asar pdta h or jinki vjy se tum change hue ho agr unhe tumhari care hogi to tumhare pas aynge although jb ap unhe ignore kroge to apko sochne ka or khud pe dhyan lgane ka tym milega to ab apna goal set kr skte ho or us doraan apko y bi pta chal jayga ki apke sath kon kon hai kyuki ap sbko ignore krogay to jise chinta hogi vo khud bi apki help ke liye ajyga β¦
Isha @issa
baat aesi he ki mre clg ke almost sare log vese he so apne aap inferiority complex ata he
Just Remember No one is above you nor Below you β¦ just concentrate on what u love
Isha @issa
ππIβll try
Well you can be both. Just gotta have to be disciplined a little. I have seen cool people and they study too(perks of being in an IIT lol, not bragging anything). But just enjoy your studies with passion, follow a strict routine(the difficult part). Be regular with your studies and you can do anything in your free time.
Isha @issa
thatβs great that youβre an IITIAN !! actually Iβm really bad at multitasking so only one of the two tasks is possible
Dude see if you have your goals sorted out. If you have long term plan then break it into short term and daily tasks. And believe me You donβt have to put more than 12 hours into studying(including classes) doesnβt matter whatever level of education youβre pursuing. Reduce 6-7 hours of sleep, youβll be left with 5-6 hours. If you plan your day really well and following your daily tasks. You can fkin do whatever you want rest of the time. Everything is about your priorities and how passionate youβre about them. Dress up nice and look dang for your own self not to be a people pleaser. Just be cool with whoever you are.
Aur ek tum mumbaikars 11-12th ko college bolna band karo yaar. πππ
Isha @issa
Thanks for your advice and you being someone whom Iβm aspiring to be (IITIAN) . It really gives me a hope to keep tryingβ¦ik I just have 4 5 months but Iβll try my best
4-5 Months is a long time. Isolate yourself for a while. You can rock in this much time. Mains is just qualifying, focus on advanced. Youβve a 1 fkin year dude. One of my close friend got an under 200 rank in 1 year. He was not that focused in class 11th. You can definitely do it, just be disciplined and keep your studies your utmost priority.
Isha @issa
yes for sure Iβll crack itπ
Isha @issa
arey yaar humare yaha aesa.hi bolte heπ₯²π₯²
Donβt seek validation if want to get it. Itβs just that simple. And donβt be in your mind. Work for a greater meaning rather than validation. You will see in the long run you would have achieved enough and it wonβt matter to you whether you get those so called validations or not. Just focus on work. Thatβs it. Nothing else.
Isha @issa
thanks thereβ¦ Iβll slowly but surely overcome this habit of getting used to validation
